I think its a path.
There's so many facets to our personalities, I found some shined brighter on some days and I thought I was having a Eureka moment and then the next day it was different. I guess they're all important, and I don't forget them, but it takes time to put them in context.
I feel alot better going through the process, alot better than I have in a long time.
I didn't need to before because I had all the answers! LOL
It ain't ever over, and that's ok.Me - WH
Her - BW
Married 20 yrs, 3 kids
DDay - 17 Nov '12 (5 month PA)
Life's tough, it's tougher when your stupid.