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User Topic: WH started new job today....
childofcheater
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Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

His EA was with COW. She actually left the company back in June but would still pop up and rear her fugly head by volunteering at events. The last one we saw her at was in Sept. It bugged the crap out of me but we did a good job of ignoring her. Well when I wasn't glaring daggers at her.

I'm so relieved that he is finally gone from that place. I didn't realize how much it stressed me out till the situation changed. We talked tonight and are in a good place. Bonus is that other than his boss (who was his former boss at old company) and who I'm good friends with and trust, the only other women at the new place are all nuns. Yes nuns and all of them are old enough to be his grandmother. So I'm as confident as I can be that this work environment will be more friendly to my marriage. Hopefully this is a new chapter.

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[This message edited by childofcheater at 8:43 PM, December 10th (Tuesday)]


Me: 36 yo, him 35
Married 14 years together 18
3 kids: DD9, DD7, DS4
DDay 2/9/12 found suspicious text to coworker
Status: in R, work in progress

Posts: 288 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: East Coast
brkn_heartd
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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am happy that his new job has relieved some stress from you. I know when I changed jobs and we moved, I felt better that my FWH wasn't anywhere near COW. He worked for several months with the possibility of running into her.

Now...I have to share a funny. Last year (3 years post D-day) my FWH and I were at a Christmas party were there were two nuns. One in her late 50's and the other in her 70's.
My FWH had lost about 70 pounds and looked nice. We had been sitting with them and had dinner (buffet style). He went to get a little more and the older nun asked him to get something for her. While he was leaving, the older nun checked out his butt and told me what a nice physic he had!! I laughed my butt off! I have teased him about it since! While I know she will maintain her vows...I found it funny that the 70 year old nun thought my husband's butt was hot!

I am glad that your stress level is better! I hope he likes his new job!


Me-50 BS
Him 57-WS
Married 30 yrs, together 33
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

Posts: 1531 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Northwesten US
childofcheater
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Default  Posted: 5:14 AM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's so funny about the nuns. I guess they like their eye candy as much as the next woman. At least they can leave it at that. :)


Me: 36 yo, him 35
Married 14 years together 18
3 kids: DD9, DD7, DS4
DDay 2/9/12 found suspicious text to coworker
Status: in R, work in progress

Posts: 288 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: East Coast
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