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User Topic: WS Dreaming
LostSamurai
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Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When you (WS) ended the affair or whatever, did you start dreaming of the OP?

I checked out my WW facebook post and I assumed right away...

The only thing bad about sleeping is dreaming. And I can't make it stop.

More insult to injury, I ask her did she dream about me...the answer...no, now she dreams of this POSOM.


ME: BH/30, HER: WW/28 DD: 3
Dday1= Before we were married ***kissed another guy at church***
Dday2= 10/29/2010 ***Kissing my relative***
Dday3 = 10/26/2013 ***confessed because she got caught by OMW***
Dday4 = 12/3/2013 ***Confessed she had sex w

Posts: 568 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Maryland
Brandon808
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Member # 35619
Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lost,
You have to disengage from her. It's only causing you more pain. Focus on you, not her.


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 3363 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
LostSamurai
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Member # 41347
Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your right, because I can feel this taking a toll on my body.


ME: BH/30, HER: WW/28 DD: 3
Dday1= Before we were married ***kissed another guy at church***
Dday2= 10/29/2010 ***Kissing my relative***
Dday3 = 10/26/2013 ***confessed because she got caught by OMW***
Dday4 = 12/3/2013 ***Confessed she had sex w

Posts: 568 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Maryland
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The only thing bad about sleeping is dreaming. And I can't make it stop.
I remember feeling this way. You would think that sleep would be welcoming. Only it wasn't. And I couldn't do anything to control my dreams.

When you (WS) ended the affair or whatever, did you start dreaming of the OP?
For me, they weren't "dreams", they were nightmares. Yes, I had them. Frequently at first. But as I worked on myself and focused on my marriage and healing more, they came less and less.

I still have nightmares with AP in them every blue moon. But it's not a fond thing.


Me - FWW
Him - QuietStand
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway."

Posts: 5395 | Registered: Nov 2011
LostSamurai
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Member # 41347
Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can you point in the direction of a good 180 success story... I want to do it.


ME: BH/30, HER: WW/28 DD: 3
Dday1= Before we were married ***kissed another guy at church***
Dday2= 10/29/2010 ***Kissing my relative***
Dday3 = 10/26/2013 ***confessed because she got caught by OMW***
Dday4 = 12/3/2013 ***Confessed she had sex w

Posts: 568 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Maryland
Ellephantastic
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Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had nightmares of WBF and OW. Quite often I would wake up having a panic attack


BS(me)
WBF = PA
Ow = 19(at the time)
WBF A = 08/10/2012-17/10/2012
D-Day = 24/01/2013

"It was easier for him to hurt me than it was for him to turn her down"


Posts: 75 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Scotland
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