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User Topic: Quick update on the babies
Lostandpregnant
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Default  Posted: 6:19 AM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had an appointment yesterday..both babies are doing great. I'm so thankful they are thriving in spite of this.

OB cleared me going to visit my friend in Colorado after xmas, as long as I get up to walk every once in awhile on the train to prevent blood clots.

So now to just get through xmas, and get away for a bit.

Thanks everyone for your good thoughts for the babies, they certainly have a lot of aunties and uncles rooting for them already <3

I'm still riding the rollercoaster about all of this, but it seems like the more time passes, the more I can function..so I hope it keeps going in that direction. I'm still so sad most days, but I can breathe..you know?


He left me 18 weeks pregnant with twins for another.I am a Licensed Private Investigator..it even happens to us.

Posts: 354 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Canada
Raven96
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Default  Posted: 6:41 AM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is wonderful news!! I'm so glad you're getting away for Christmas! A change of scenery usually does wonders!!!

Thank you for sharing your good news.

(((L&P)))


Marriage isn't a test, so why cheat?

Posts: 328 | Registered: Aug 2013
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:24 AM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So glad all is going well with your babies! And yay for the "all clear" to go see your friend!


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


Posts: 22520 | Registered: Aug 2011
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 7:29 AM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hooray! Great news!


BS-me, 52
WH(Mr. Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS17
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 7964 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
Lola88
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Default  Posted: 8:37 AM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy to hear your babies are doing well - you are doing so well in the horrible situation your WH has created.

I hope you have a wonderful Christmas with your lovely children and enjoy your time with your friend.

I look forward to your posts - HUGS


Posts: 121 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: UK
refuz2bavictim
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Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay little babies and mom!


BS:ME DDay: 7/18/09 Last of TT 7/11/10
MOW's EA/PA all were my "friends" but one


Posts: 2358 | Registered: Jan 2010
StillStanding1
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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful news! Keep taking good care of yourself. So glad you can get away from it for a brief bit and hang out with a friend. Let yourself be pampered... You need it and deserve it!


Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 20 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, MC/IC/FC,
He officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...

Posts: 515 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
Hope2B
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Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful news about the babies! So glad you'll have a bit of a getaway to Colorado!


Me: early 60s
Him: 64 yrs old, LTA w/a pro$titute
Married since 1980, no children
DDay: Feb. 25, 2013
Trickle Truth Days: Sept 10, 11, 13, 15 (2013)
His affair--says it was only 8 times 1x/mo, then found out it was 7 YEARS 2-3x/mo

Posts: 259 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: out west/west coast U.S.A.
Skan
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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news about the babies!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4053 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
myowndystopia
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Default  Posted: 10:26 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay for the babies and the upcoming trip! So do I have nieces or nephews? Either way - I can tell they are strong like their mommy!


Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)

"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
Adele


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