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User Topic: Secret Santa Gift
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hellllppppp!

I ended up picking the commander of the unit I work with.

The only thing I know about him is that he is really big into Brazilian Jiu Jitsu! He's the one that hooked me up with the info so I can start taking lessons soon!

I NEED suggestions. I have to buy it this weekend and it can't be over $15.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB

Posts: 2127 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can you ask around to people that know him well and see what they say?


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5818 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Go with a food or drink type gift.

* A gift certificate to Starbucks (or other local coffee place) if you have EVER seen him drink coffee. I almost never buy coffee, but I would certainly enjoy myself with "free" coffee from starbucks.

* a bottle of wine if you have any inclination that he might drink wine. Or a bottle of his favorite liquor if you have ever seen him order a drink. Or if you know he is a beer connoisseur, some of the christmas brew that is available only this time of year. Go to a liquor store and ask for help with any of these items.

* A gift certificate to a local place he can go for lunch. Everyone needs to eat lunch.

* Some nice chocolates. Even if he is not a big fan he can share with with his family

* A homemade food item like gingerbread men or christmas cookies. Again, he can share with his family

Good luck!!

[This message edited by Dreamboat at 5:21 PM, December 12th (Thursday)]


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ummmm how about some boards to break?'!?


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
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Gajit
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Default  Posted: 6:15 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I heard that the Duck Dynasty chia pets were hot on the gift list! LOL


Lord, with Your help I will focus on each small step of the climb, instead of the mountain that stands before me.

Posts: 224 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: USA
Audrina
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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How about you get a nice Holiday box from the dollar store and put it in some treats, like chocolates, candy, popcorn etc along with 2 movie tickets/gift card value for 2 tickets.

I did this one yr for secret santa and the person loved it.


Me (betrayed): 35
Him:45


Posts: 257 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Canada
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok, for the peanut gallery, hahah.
And for the sincere suggestions, thanks. I dont know anything about him and he is new to the unit. Sooo, I will go with pulling out a decorative box and baking. Maybe a gift card to the martial arts supply store too!
Again, thanks. I knew my SI family had my back again!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB

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