'If you come into my life, the door is open; If you leave my life, the door is open; Just one request, don't stand in the doorway, you're blocking the traffic'
This "realisation" just took place due to a 'gym' shirt in the wash that smells freshly laundered..... took me a long time. How sad!
How sad that he did this to you and keeps doing this to you. Shame on HIM.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.