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User Topic: Does the crying ever stop?
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Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, December 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think I cried enough for both me and the CSTBXWW. She sure wasn't crying. Totally oblivious to what she's done.

Still happens to me 9 months on. I can feel myself mourning the loss of my wife and children. Mostly it's crying for the children and the family life they will no longer have.

Me 40
WW 38
Together 19 years
Married for 9
DS(1) 9
DS(2) 7
Dday 10th Feb 2013
She moved in with POS and took kids 23rd Mar 2013. WW now has new baby
Divorced April 2014

Posts: 720 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: UK
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Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The tears do slow down. At first, I sobbed constantly. Over the past year, the frequency is less, but I do still cry/mourn. I cried when I learned he was engaged to the OW (and no, we are not divorce yet, still waiting for mediation), I cried a lot over the one year anniversary of dday. I accept that the tears are healing and each tear moves me closer to healing the hurt.

I have an easier time accepting the tears over the anger.

I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.

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