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User Topic: I even got his friends in the D
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One of Wxh's friend does snow plowing. I'm having a home emergency, and called him to come plow my driveway this weekend.

Since the D, we have talked periodically-usually when he needs something. So, yesterday as we talked about the snow plowing, he said "I haven't seen Williesdad for several years. I talk to you waaaay more often."

Apparently, during the D, wxh was telling this friend how controlling I was (because I expected him to work and not chase other women). After the D, this friend spent an afternoon with wxh and his new bar whore/girlfriend. Apparently, she sat on her ass and barked orders while wxh jumped to her orders.

Friend said, "Williesdad, what are you doing? That chick is nuts. You fucked up a really good life with williesmom, and she's done with you, but you can't have a life with BarWhore."

I think that I never realized how awesome my friends are- even the fringe ones.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7424 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:06 AM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's awesome, WM.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Williesdad

I'm sorry, but your ex is doesn't even deserve to share your name. I in my mouth a little when I read that.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13560 | Registered: Jul 2011
persevere
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Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've had similar experiences with his "friends", and while I'm glad they get it, I still always find it sad that he can't, or won't, see how his behavior has alienated so many who care about him. But, it is no longer my problem, so I don't dwell on it.

Good for you WM.


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4374 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AMA- thanks! Your made me laugh.

However, willies was his dog. That poor dog missed him more than i did when we split up. We both deserved better from him.

[This message edited by Williesmom at 3:46 PM, December 15th (Sunday)]


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7424 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 4:03 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think most of x's friends hate me because I kicked his ass in the divorce. Whatever.

Only one of my Irish cousins still speaks to him. The rest, not so much.

[This message edited by FaithFool at 4:03 PM, December 15th (Sunday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17132 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Faith- very funny! No reason for us to tone it down at that point. We kick ass every single day.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7424 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That conversation must have been a nice validation.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9254 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It was validating for me, but I already knew what a nice life we had.

The best part is that my new life is even better.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7424 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
tesla
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Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, of course you got his friends in the D.
He's a jagoff.
Who wants to be friends with a jagoff?


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4546 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Harriet
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Default  Posted: 6:15 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay, Williesmom! That must have been nice to hear. I don't think most of my exes friends know the whole story. Those that have heard through the grapevine are pretty horrified and tell me so.


D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

Posts: 385 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California
Starfish1973
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Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, December 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lol. I am not D (yet) but WH did tell his BF about his A.

Immediately, BF told him how wrong and stupid he was, and I have noticed how much nicer BF is to me now.

Beauty!


Married 11 years. Together for 14
Female, age 40. WH is 47.
DD, aged 6
Found out about affair November 1, 2013
Info is only trickling in :-( it was a long affair.

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