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User Topic: It seemed like a good idea...
ISPIFFD
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Wink  Posted: 4:04 PM, December 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So in spite of believing to my core that I have no interest in dating or getting together with any man ever again, I occasionally dip my toe into OLD just for a look around (before crawling back under my rock).

I have a very minimal okc profile up, with no photo. I was getting a little tired of not being able to see other people's photos (beyond the main one) because I don't have any pics up, although I understand the point of that rule. So I posted a picture of myself that I had zombified using The Walking Dead's website app called "Dead Yourself" or something like that.

I thought it would show how lovely I am underneath and also if anyone responded to it, they'd probably be TWD fans and that might be a good opener for a convo, right?

Within seconds, I get a message: "... the f*ck are you!?"

Apparently not as many people watch TWD as AMC would have us believe... I don't think I'll respond to that guy.

[This message edited by ISPIFFD at 4:05 PM, December 16th (Monday)]


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, December 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is it wrong that I want you to respond to him, "BRRAAAIIINNNSSSSSS"?


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, December 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great idea!!!


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PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, December 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Best. Thread. Ever.

I am so laughing my ass off right now. Love it!


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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, December 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


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HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 3:05 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sorry but

that's hilarious.

"BRRAAAIIINNNSSSSSS"?

^^^ this response


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Rainbows
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Default  Posted: 3:15 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Haha!!! Too funny.

Thanks for the late night laugh.


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ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 7:12 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And this morning...

What the hell is up with your profile picture?

Am I allowed to post the pic here? It's actually kind of ... striking. In an exotic way

[This message edited by ISPIFFD at 7:13 AM, December 17th (Tuesday)]


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PSA

If the message was "How the f*ck are you?", I've been taught that that is the standard Brooklyn greeting, right AN?


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ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 7:23 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If the message was "How the f*ck are you?", I've been taught that that is the standard Brooklyn greeting

Absolutely! My XWH (and all his buds) was from Brooklyn, so I heard that a lot.

But there was no "how" in this question


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ninebark
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Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If I saw a guy with that on his profile I would be impressed. lol. We Walking Dead fans are a fun bunch.


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You fuckin' know it!


Take up your space (and do it well).

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:36 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 7:40 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We Walking Dead fans are a fun bunch

I know, right!??!


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NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 8:01 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
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abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This entire thread is awesome! Love it. And I want to see your pic ISPIFFD!


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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it!

I may have to Duck Dynasty myself.


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ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@abbycadabby -- I just PMd you


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better4me
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

t/j
I was just on my OKCupid account and got a pop up message that 4Satan was visiting my profile. Now, that is a GREAT user name! Yikes


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

got a pop up message that 4Satan was visiting my profile.
You never know, b4me - he could just be an illiterate Christmas lover.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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