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User Topic: It seemed like a good idea...
ISPIFFD
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Wink  Posted: 4:04 PM, December 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So in spite of believing to my core that I have no interest in dating or getting together with any man ever again, I occasionally dip my toe into OLD just for a look around (before crawling back under my rock).

I have a very minimal okc profile up, with no photo. I was getting a little tired of not being able to see other people's photos (beyond the main one) because I don't have any pics up, although I understand the point of that rule. So I posted a picture of myself that I had zombified using The Walking Dead's website app called "Dead Yourself" or something like that.

I thought it would show how lovely I am underneath and also if anyone responded to it, they'd probably be TWD fans and that might be a good opener for a convo, right?

Within seconds, I get a message: "... the f*ck are you!?"

Apparently not as many people watch TWD as AMC would have us believe... I don't think I'll respond to that guy.

[This message edited by ISPIFFD at 4:05 PM, December 16th (Monday)]


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, December 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is it wrong that I want you to respond to him, "BRRAAAIIINNNSSSSSS"?


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
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ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, December 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great idea!!!


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PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, December 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Best. Thread. Ever.

I am so laughing my ass off right now. Love it!


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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, December 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 3:05 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sorry but

that's hilarious.

"BRRAAAIIINNNSSSSSS"?

^^^ this response


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Rainbows
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Default  Posted: 3:15 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Haha!!! Too funny.

Thanks for the late night laugh.


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ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 7:12 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And this morning...

What the hell is up with your profile picture?

Am I allowed to post the pic here? It's actually kind of ... striking. In an exotic way

[This message edited by ISPIFFD at 7:13 AM, December 17th (Tuesday)]


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PSA

If the message was "How the f*ck are you?", I've been taught that that is the standard Brooklyn greeting, right AN?


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ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 7:23 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If the message was "How the f*ck are you?", I've been taught that that is the standard Brooklyn greeting

Absolutely! My XWH (and all his buds) was from Brooklyn, so I heard that a lot.

But there was no "how" in this question


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ninebark
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Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If I saw a guy with that on his profile I would be impressed. lol. We Walking Dead fans are a fun bunch.


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You fuckin' know it!


Take up your space (and do it well).

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:36 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 7:40 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We Walking Dead fans are a fun bunch

I know, right!??!


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NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 8:01 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This entire thread is awesome! Love it. And I want to see your pic ISPIFFD!


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Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it!

I may have to Duck Dynasty myself.


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ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@abbycadabby -- I just PMd you


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better4me
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

t/j
I was just on my OKCupid account and got a pop up message that 4Satan was visiting my profile. Now, that is a GREAT user name! Yikes


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

got a pop up message that 4Satan was visiting my profile.
You never know, b4me - he could just be an illiterate Christmas lover.


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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