Topic: My New Beginning is official
Member # 38735
| Posted: 10:57 PM, December 16th (Monday), 2013|
So, I knew as soon as I filed for D that I would be heading back to school. I have a liberal arts degree which is no good for actually finding employment. So, I'm looking to go into the medical field. I just signed up for my first class in the Spring. I'm so nervous about going back to school. It's been about 14 years since I graduated with my first degree! I'm starting out slow, but still nervous about juggling it all.
BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Posts: 669 | Registered: Mar 2013
Member # 27148
| Posted: 12:25 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013|
Congrats and good for you!!!!!
Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.
Posts: 2228 | Registered: Jan 2010
Member # 30346
| Posted: 6:41 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013|
I went back to school too…it is different than the "first go 'round", but I've found I am a much better student!
You can do it!
me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 40, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, separated 3 years, together 17
Alis volat propriis "She flies with her own wings"
Posts: 3440 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Virginia
Member # 37777
| Posted: 6:55 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013|
Good for you. I too went back to school in my late 30's. it was much more enjoyable. Great way to move foreward. Best of luck.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.
Its a deal breaker!
Posts: 58 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: NY
Member # 3903
| Posted: 7:03 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013|
You can do this!! It really is different after you have had some real life experience. I went back to school at 52. It has been wonderful.
Good for you!
After all this time I finally know that none of this was about me or some deficiency I brought to the marriage. He was the one with the problem.
Posts: 1405 | Registered: Mar 2004
Member # 33226
| Posted: 7:38 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013|
You can call me NIK
"Ring the bells that still can ring
Forget your perfect offering
There is a crack in everything
That's how the light gets in." -Cohen
Posts: 21843 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 35214
| Posted: 11:00 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013|
I took a 'semester off' from pursuing my Bachelor's when my second child was born... 13 years later I finished it, at the age of 40.
Now I am six classes away from getting my MBA with Accounting concentration.
I know from personal experience that going back after so long can be a scary thing. But it's AWESOME you're taking that leap!! And you'll do great!!! Just believe in YOU honey!!
Me: BS (43)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(50)
D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/2013.
Divorce final 2/10/14.
Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.
Posts: 405 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: North Texas
Member # 24210
| Posted: 11:08 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013|
Best advice I got when I went back was NOT to compare yourself/grade/study habits with what you did last go-round.
In many case, you did not have the same challenges and stressors as today (divorce, kids, etc).
He told us not to focus on being the best....but focus on being the best you can be at this point of your life.
Don't get me wrong - I did not take it as an excust to be lax. I still went through my D, took accelerated program, running my house single, FT job, battling the stalker ex and raising 2 kids and stayed on the Dean's List the entire time. BUT when I was freakin' over stuff.....I remembered what he said and cut myself some slack.
[This message edited by EvenKeel at 11:09 AM, December 17th (Tuesday)]
When someone shows you their true colors, don't try to repaint them.
Posts: 1820 | Registered: May 2009 | From: Pa
Member # 26367
| Posted: 11:13 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013|
Congrats!!! That's wonderful!
Me: BW (54)
Him: WH (61)
7/14/11 - Divorced
Posts: 1712 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: another world
Member # 40229
| Posted: 11:25 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013|
Calls for a celebration. I'm bringing some wine and champagne to the party!
That's what I call starting off the New Year RIGHT!!!
I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
Posts: 1642 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
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