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User Topic: Who does Karma actually hit?
Cheatedon23
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Iíve read a lot on here about wishing the Karma bus would hit or run over the AP, and honestly, I have wished the same thing. But, I canít help thinking while we are wishing for the Karma bus to come, who says that their betrayed spouse isnít wishing for the Karma bus to hit our WS.

It seems like maybe the Karma bus may have hit my house and my WS. Although, my WS has had some health issues before the A, they seem to be getting worse. Also, his job sucks and it seems like his partners are trying to screw him over. We also have two teenage sons and recently have had to deal with some of their stupid antics, which I know is all part of growing up, but when we are dealing with this stuff, I canít help but get a little angry and think to myself that this is Karma giving my WH what he deserves for what he did, and the sad thing is that me and our children are having to deal with it also.

So I donít know, maybe by wishing for bad Karma to hit the OW, I wished it on my family as well and maybe we should be careful about what we wish for. Does this make any sense? I know Iím just rambling right now Anyone else have the same thoughts?


Me: BS 50
Him: WH 51
D - 26; S - 23; S - 20

Married 31years, together 34
D-Day 1 - April 1, 2012
D-Day 2 - October 5, 2012
D-Day 3 - August 15, 2014
99.9% we are getting a divorce.


Posts: 79 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: Georgia
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know about the others, but when I was wishing for Karma, I wanted it directly proportional to his crimes.
I.e., when he cheated on me and broke my heart I wanted her to cheat on him and break his heart. Or maybe give him a curable STD or herpes...not AIDS.
Maybe, since he was blameshifting and saying I was controlling and wouldn't spend his money, he go deeply into debt and his check get garnished..after my spousal maintenance came out first.
As for her...same. I don't wish either of them bad health, though I wouldn't be said if she dropped dead. I don't wish him out of work, just to get a low paying job so what little he made came to me and he was broke and having to finally learn how to budget instead of charging all the time.
I think what is happening to you is just life in general.
But I'm sending warm and fuzzy thoughts your way so the winds of fate bless your home.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2210 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
spond
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Default  Posted: 1:21 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

/start-rant
I wish the OM would stub his little pinky toe for the rest of his life on the bed post.
/end-rant

and (((hugs)))

[This message edited by spond at 1:21 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)]


BH(me) | fWW
2 Kids - Married 2002
D-Day TT & EA | D-Day #2 PA
Reconciling

Posts: 383 | Registered: Dec 2013
Cheatedon23
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Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Stilllivin for the warm and fuzzy thoughts! I could use them today.

I know that most of the stuff I'm dealing with is just life, but I can't help blaming him for all the bad and unpleasant things that happen. I'm so ready to get off this crazy train I've been living on!!


Me: BS 50
Him: WH 51
D - 26; S - 23; S - 20

Married 31years, together 34
D-Day 1 - April 1, 2012
D-Day 2 - October 5, 2012
D-Day 3 - August 15, 2014
99.9% we are getting a divorce.


Posts: 79 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: Georgia
StillLivin
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Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 1:32 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sister, it's truly a crazy ride for sure!
It does get better.
I didn't have to suffer too long in R, so I can't even imagine how much harder that ride is.
Just keep it in the back of your head when the kids act nutso, that this too shall pass.
Believe me, I know how teenagers can make things even crazier. At one point I had 4 teenagers in the house when my sister deployed and I took on her two.
Whew, that was hard work!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2210 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
justjim
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Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know I have said this before, but...

I don't really care what happens to OM. I want the karma bus to hit my Whoring Wife, then back over her.

Then, do a burnout on her black soul.

She promised to love, honor, and cherish.

He didn't.


Follow your BRAIN.
Your HEART is stupid as shit.

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