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User Topic: lawyer wants me to hire a PI
littlefoggy
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Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, December 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't think STBXWH is going to be dumb enough to kiss a 17 yo in public.

I don't want to bet a grand on it.

WWYD?


Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing

Posts: 486 | Registered: Nov 2013
trumanshow
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Default  Posted: 9:11 AM, December 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. I got recs for PI from my lawyer-as well as legal clearance to put tracker on his truck

2. set up geofences-and my cell to be alerted when he crossed them

3. since PI was alerted by me that he was with her- there was no wasted time being paid for

4. I ended up getting most of the PI retainer back


Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.

The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed


Posts: 1742 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Charlotte, NC
sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, December 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't think STBXWH is going to be dumb enough to kiss a 17 yo in public.
Oh, I DO!


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3179 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
littlefoggy
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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, December 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I decided not to.

We just weren't even that affectionate in public (even when dating) so I don't think he will be with her).

At least not when I gotta pay for daycare and a lawyer and crap.


Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing

Posts: 486 | Registered: Nov 2013
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