1. I got recs for PI from my lawyer-as well as legal clearance to put tracker on his truck
2. set up geofences-and my cell to be alerted when he crossed them
3. since PI was alerted by me that he was with her- there was no wasted time being paid for
4. I ended up getting most of the PI retainer back
Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.
The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed