I thought I was done with three bananas... a bc failure brought along baby banana when the older three were 9, 7 and 4. I hate to admit it but I was so upset when I was pg... I knew even then ex-asshat and I weren't going to go the distance and the thought of bringing a baby into it was hard.
It all works out. She is one of the most awesome kids I know. I think I'll keep her.
Congrats to your DD... and she is very lucky to have a mama like you.