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User Topic: Y2sucks, tearfully offered D, BS/WS help please
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We're going on year 3. I understand about counseling being a trigger. After 2 1/2 of MC, I was glad things were improving enough to start cutting back to 2x a month instead of weekly. It took a few tries to find a good counselor but ours is great. He has helped my WH to learn how to deal with my triggers better so it's been a trade off for me.

I haven't been interested in IC because I don't see any point in dredging things up to deal with with some stranger when WH is the one who I need to clean up this mess.

Perhaps MC would be helpful to you as well but be prepared to deal with the triggers there.

[This message edited by Ladyogilvy at 2:33 PM, December 23rd (Monday)]

Me: BW a youthful 49
Him: alcoholic, sober now, WH 56
Married 19 years
Two sons, 16 & 17 years old
DD? He's still keeping secrets and only admits to what I have indisputable
evidence of... the $2000 earrings he bought her for x-mas.

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