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User Topic: All A's!!!
cmego
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Default  Posted: 6:57 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Part of my New Beginning was to start a different career path. I began an Assoc. degree program and have done very well. I considered law school (I already have a Bachelors) and was talked out due to time and financial considerations. So, I started Graduate School at a great university in the fall, while still taking a class in my Assoc. program too.

Grades in. All A's. Holding down two different school programs, having primary custody of my kids, both kids have special needs, own a house and somehow date in there too.

Boo-yah.


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4186 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
7yrsflushed
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Default  Posted: 7:23 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woohoo! Congrats and keep up the hard work!


D-day 5/24/11
BH = Me
2 children
The first true sense of calm I felt in YEARS was when I filed for D...
Divorced 9/2/14 and loving life!

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Default  Posted: 7:48 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!! That is great news.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3432 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
movingforward13
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Default  Posted: 7:51 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats! That is very awesome!


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Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

Posts: 640 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: DC
Pass
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Default  Posted: 8:15 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're a star, cmego. Congratulations on your achievements!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

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Default  Posted: 8:29 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

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NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 8:41 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is awesome! Way to go for all your hard work!!!!


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:11 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So inspiring. Go you!!!


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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WTG, cme!


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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 9:31 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesomeness!! Now do something fun to celebrate.


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

good job! I think you might function the same way I do - the busier you are, the better you do


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Default  Posted: 9:44 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You rock!


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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 11:46 AM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are you surprised? I am not!! But I am pleased as I can be that you have confirmation that you are AWESOMESAUCE and top notch!!!

Yay, YOU!!!


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 12:06 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

the busier you are, the better you do

This is true in a lot of cases I think. ^^^^^ Once our brains get ramped up, there's no stopping us!

Congratulations!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
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to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oooh ah ooooh ah ooooh ah!!! (There is a happy dance that dd and I do while saying that).

Congrats!!!!


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cmego
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, guys!! It was a very difficult semester. I wish I knew how to cut myself a little slack, but I am pleased.

Next semester? International business and international litigation. Gulp.

I'm thankful for a two week breather without a project/paper/test hanging over my head!


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


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Bebba1171
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Default  Posted: 4:54 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations. That is really impressive what you have done.

My son got all A's his first semester in college. So proud of him.

He put in a supreme effort as you have done. Not easy!

Good luck in your international business classes. I have traveled to over 20 countries with my job and really enjoyed it.

We have had our ups and downs but managed to always avoid litigation. It can be tough getting paid sometimes!


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 52 (Me) / XWW 50 - ages back in 2011
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 727 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: USA
phmh
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Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Grades in. All A's. Holding down two different school programs, having primary custody of my kids, both kids have special needs, own a house and somehow date in there too.

I need to go to cmego school and learn how to be a superhero!!!

So impressive. Congratulations on all your achievements!!!


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holy Moly!!! Congrats


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