Topic: Stage 4 Cancer - Need Mojo Please!
Member # 16321
| Posted: 5:17 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013|
Oh my. Such awesome news! Congratulations!
Me- BW 35
Him - WH 43
Posts: 53 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: Texas
Member # 39885
| Posted: 5:23 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013|
Sending all I got your way.
D Day: 6/13/13
Moving on. Every Single Day.
Posts: 428 | Registered: Jul 2013
Member # 34823
| Posted: 5:25 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013|
Very happy for your news, PA5.
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Posts: 7020 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
Member # 26531
| Posted: 5:42 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013|
Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Posts: 23795 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Member # 34195
| Posted: 5:49 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013|
Thanks again everyone. The next step in all this will be much easier to handle now that I know what I'm *not* dealing with. After the new year (probably) my oncologist will schedule surgery to excise the tumor area, do a node biopsy under my arm and possibly put me on a cocktail of meds (Interferon etc..) All of this I can handle because I now have the biggest piece of the puzzle solved in getting the negative Pet scan results.
OK, really late now and heading out to party. Talk to you all again real soon!
[This message edited by PanicAttack53 at 5:50 PM, December 23rd (Monday)]
Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 60 | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
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Posts: 868 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Midwest
Member # 31240
| Posted: 6:11 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013|
I'm still in your corner WRT removing the initial melanoma.
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DDay - 12/2010
I share my own experience not because I'm a good model but because it's the only experience I know.
Posts: 8531 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Member # 9742
| Posted: 6:17 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013|
Whew! Such good news!!!
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Posts: 2762 | Registered: Feb 2006
Member # 27148
| Posted: 8:39 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013|
What wonderful news and a great Christmas present for you!
Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.
Posts: 2221 | Registered: Jan 2010
Member # 3903
| Posted: 9:05 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013|
I am so happy for you!
After all this time I finally know that none of this was about me or some deficiency I brought to the marriage. He was the one with the problem.
Posts: 1403 | Registered: Mar 2004
Member # 34353
| Posted: 9:14 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013|
Sending you good thoughts
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile
Posts: 1498 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Texas
Member # 32616
| Posted: 9:40 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013|
Great update, more mojo headed your way.
Posts: 2869 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
Member # 31349
| Posted: 9:48 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013|
That's fantastic news! More mojo and prayers for a smooth next few steps.
Me: BW 34
Crazz: FWH 32
For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot
Posts: 13796 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 33698
| Posted: 9:57 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013|
Wonderful news! I'm so happy for you. Sending you continued positive mojo for your future surgery, healing, and health.
BS (Me) 39
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Posts: 3319 | Registered: Oct 2011
Member # 23890
| Posted: 10:05 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013|
Happy Dancing!!! Excellent new PA?
"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?
Posts: 4054 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
Member # 10376
| Posted: 10:14 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013|
MOJO on the way to you. Prayers too!
BS me 53
Married for 32 years
Live for today.
Posts: 1709 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Virginia
Member # 6449
| Posted: 11:38 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013|
So glad to hear that good news! And I hope you enjoyed your evening out! Best wishes Panic!
~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
Posts: 9597 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
Member # 25341
| Posted: 2:32 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
Awesome update ((((PA)))), I'm so happy for you!!
Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...
Posts: 2468 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Member # 24261
| Posted: 6:02 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
Just so pleased for you
DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??
I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)
Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!
Posts: 4948 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
Member # 35812
| Posted: 7:24 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013|
I am SO very happy for you! That's great news!
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Posts: 3776 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Member # 26133
| Posted: 6:00 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013|
Ah, that news was a great Christmas present! I hope you had a lovely day.
Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.
Posts: 4927 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
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