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User Topic: Stage 4 Cancer - Need Mojo Please!
goodbye_virginia
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Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh my. Such awesome news! Congratulations!


Me- BW 35
Him - WH 43

Posts: 53 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: Texas
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending all I got your way.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 734 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very happy for your news, PA5.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7919 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome news!!!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24444 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
PanicAttack53
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Default  Posted: 5:49 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks again everyone. The next step in all this will be much easier to handle now that I know what I'm *not* dealing with. After the new year (probably) my oncologist will schedule surgery to excise the tumor area, do a node biopsy under my arm and possibly put me on a cocktail of meds (Interferon etc..) All of this I can handle because I now have the biggest piece of the puzzle solved in getting the negative Pet scan results.

OK, really late now and heading out to party. Talk to you all again real soon!

[This message edited by PanicAttack53 at 5:50 PM, December 23rd (Monday)]


Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 60 | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle

Posts: 868 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Midwest
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 6:11 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's GREAT!

I'm still in your corner WRT removing the initial melanoma.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9982 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
JustDone
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Default  Posted: 6:17 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whew! Such good news!!!


Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.

Nobody forgets what happens, the secret is learning to live with it.


Posts: 2781 | Registered: Feb 2006
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What wonderful news and a great Christmas present for you!


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2628 | Registered: Jan 2010
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 9:05 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so happy for you!


There is life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1617 | Registered: Mar 2004
jjsr
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Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you good thoughts


Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile

Posts: 1617 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great update, more mojo headed your way.

Posts: 3334 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 9:48 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's fantastic news! More mojo and prayers for a smooth next few steps.


If you can't learn to enjoy your life when you have problems, you may never enjoy it because we'll always have problems. - Joyce Meyer

Posts: 16975 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful news! I'm so happy for you. Sending you continued positive mojo for your future surgery, healing, and health.


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3572 | Registered: Oct 2011
Take2
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Default  Posted: 10:05 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Dancing!!! Excellent new PA?


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4112 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
teacheribe
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Default  Posted: 10:14 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MOJO on the way to you. Prayers too!


BS me 53
FWH 57
Married for 32 years
Live for today.

Posts: 1709 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Virginia
Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 11:38 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So glad to hear that good news! And I hope you enjoyed your evening out! Best wishes Panic!


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9693 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 2:32 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome update ((((PA)))), I'm so happy for you!!


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2545 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
cass
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just so pleased for you


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4965 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
Skan
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Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am SO very happy for you! That's great news!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4713 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Edie
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Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ah, that news was a great Christmas present! I hope you had a lovely day.


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 5056 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
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