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User Topic: Stage 4 Cancer - Need Mojo Please!
Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome, that's the best news I've heard this holiday season. Merry Christmas!


Me (BS)-45, WW-42
DDay 2/17/13, 9-10 month PA/EA
Final NC late Feb. '13
M - 18 years, 4 children
Reconciling

Posts: 1376 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Texas
tesla
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Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! So very happy to hear this!!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4619 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Tred
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Default  Posted: 11:00 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome update PA!


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3917 | Registered: Dec 2011
JKL Vikings
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Default  Posted: 11:30 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news PA
Going to send the cancer a sympathy card in advance of the butt kicking it's about to get


Her- Alpha Female 40
Me-FWH 41
Married since '02, together since 2000
D-day 2/10/2009
3 sons- J- born Oct 2001
K- born Sept. 2005
L- born Apr. 2008
We ALL have issues. It's how we deal with them that makes the difference

Posts: 515 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Dallas, TX
SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Excellent news! I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and sending mojo your way.


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank goodness!

Sending good thoughts your way!


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
PanicAttack53
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Default  Posted: 4:27 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hello All!

First and foremost, thanks to everyone for the thoughts, prayers and Mojo sent my way. I really do appreciate it! Second, sorry for not updating this thread until now. My only excuse is that it's been a really trying week for me.


I had the C surgery & biopsy last Monday (1/6). Unfortunately it didn't go as well as I had hoped. They doubled the area they were going to remove as the C was very deep. The biopsy showed it in some other lymph nodes besides the sentinel node. All of these had to be removed and were also very deep. My left forearm looks like it had a huge chunk bitten out of it. If I had to guess, I figure I lost about 1/8 to 1/4 of my upper arm & under arm.

I'm currently in a full arm compression sleeve and also wearing a drain that was sutured in during surgery. I will be wearing both until 1/16 when I have my post-op appointment. I will also find out that day *if* I need to go on chemo as everything they removed was sent to a lab.

Although I am in pain and experiencing other normal stuff after surgery, the hardest part of this again is the waiting game. I've been so tired since the surgery I sleep about 3/4 of the day away. Don't know if that is just the anesthesia wearing off or some kind of depression setting in. I'm trying like hell to live in the moment... stay positive etc... but being totally honest, it's a losing battle some days. Today is the first time since last Monday I even felt like doing anything. I am trying to eat & drink so as not to get run down or dehydrated... so I guess that's a plus.

Well that's it folks. Sorry again for the delay getting this up.

All the best....
~ PA53


Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 60 | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle

Posts: 868 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Midwest
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((pa))))) Continuing to send you strength and mojo for clear margins and good news on the 16th.

Your body has undergone a major trauma with the surgery. It's no wonder you are needing so much rest! Take it very easy. We're all pulling for you.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Crescita
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Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((PanicAttack))) I hope you get better news at your next appointment.

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cass
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Default  Posted: 6:06 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Rest and rest more. Your body is telling you this is best for your healing.

(((PA53))


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:15 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((PA)))

Sending you strength and mojo.


Posts: 35125 | Registered: Mar 2011
somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 7:26 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..@PA53.. sending you TONS and TONS of Premium, 1st grade, maximum strength, A-1 quality, magic MoJo..

..sleep is medicine for healing so get lots..

..stay POSITIVE !!!!! I believe firmly and strongly in the POWER of POSITIVE THINKING..

..that's also..GOOD MEDICINE.. put your brain in "HEALING MODE"..

..prayers also sent to The MAN!!

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4123 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 9:26 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stay strong PA. You can do this.

((((PA))))


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7056 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers for a speedy recovery.


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 3787 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 10:58 PM, January 14th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending mojo, good thoughts, and prayers. You will heal, and you will feel better in time.

(((PA53)))


I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown

Posts: 17286 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 12:55 AM, January 15th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending healing wishes.

ETA: I have been a malignant melanoma survivor for 29 years. This thing can be beat. Stay strong!

[This message edited by HardenMyHeart at 9:54 AM, January 15th (Wednesday)]


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.


Posts: 5644 | Registered: Aug 2007
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 2:00 AM, January 15th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((PA)))) too bad it didn't go as smoothly as hoped for, but k
eep hanging in there.

Sending you all the strength and mojo you need to make it through this difficult time.

((((PA))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2585 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Edie
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Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, January 15th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((PA)))

it sounds like you are being gentle with yourself - good.

Peace, quiet, pampering, care and rest, these are are what you need now.

Love and hugs being sent your way.

Edie x


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 5102 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
Tred
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Default  Posted: 9:18 AM, January 15th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PA,

I'll have a beer on my utility trailer for you mate. Got rid of the pick up so I don't have a tailgate anymore...the trailer is as close as it gets .

Hang in there and PM me if you need anything.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3917 | Registered: Dec 2011
5454real
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Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, January 15th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

mojo brother mojo. you will be in my thoughts and prayers.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

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