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User Topic: Stage 4 Cancer - Need Mojo Please!
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, January 15th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for the update.
I'm sending prayers your way. Sleep is a good thing right now. Surgery of any kind takes it's toll on the body.
One day at a time.
(((PanicAttack53)))


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2213 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
PanicAttack53
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Default  Posted: 3:42 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi Folks,

Here's another update on my continuing C saga. I have great news and some not so good news in this one. First the great news... ALL the tissue samples sent to the lab after my surgery on 1/6 came back negative, i.e., there was no C detected in them. That calls for a BIG Yippee!!

The not so good news is that the C was so deep (to the bone) they're not 100% sure they got it all. So here's where I'm at in all of this as of now. I've scheduled another appointment with my Oncologist who will most likely put me on a Chemo or Radiation regiment. That appointment is Monday 1/20 so stay tuned for more info.

Last but surly not least... a BIG Thanks to ALL here at SI for your support through this. I really do appreciate it!!!


Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 60 | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle

Posts: 868 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Midwest
Threnody
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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Each step along the way, it sounds as if you've had more positive than negative. So let's hope the trend continues.

Sending warm hugs and best wishes for Monday.

(((PA)))


“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown

Posts: 14040 | Registered: Jun 2003 | From: Middle-of-Diddly, TX
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PA - continued Mojo...

We're just finishing our three year journey thru Cancer/Chemo/Radiation here with FWSO Dx of Lymphoma.

Good news is... with all of today's technology and medical advancements the big C is survivable and you can live a happy healthy life!

My prayers for a Happy Healthy Post-C life for you!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24444 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
cass
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Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's really great news PA.

I know it will be hard to play the waiting game for a little while longer but a chemo or radiation regiment to make sure they have got it all sounds like a good plan to me.

Sending you strong positive vibes for a speedy recovery to full health.


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4965 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
brokenpromise
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Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you healing prayers and strength

BP


BW- Me 60 FWS - 65
M 43 years
DD June 9, 2010
On and off LTA with dept secretary
But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal Matt 6:20

Posts: 414 | Registered: Jun 2010
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:18 AM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PA - Big yippee for the tissue sample results! Continuing to send you strength for the next steps.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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AgainandAgain
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Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay on the tissue but boo on the continued treatment!

Sending you prayers for healing and strength


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still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sending prayers your way, pa.

Waiting, for anything, sucks. Take care of yourself.

We are all here cheering for you!

Sending strength.


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

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PanicAttack53
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Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hello All!!!
This will be my last update on this thread as I just got home from the Oncologists office a couple hours ago & have some awesome news!!! My doc informed me that NO CHEMO & NO RADIATION is needed!!!! He's confident they got *all* the C and putting me on Interferon or nukes may do more harm then good at this point. He also told me that I'll be a C patient for 5 years & a lifetime Dermatology patient... but who cares!!!!! I'm so happy & also feel so blessed I want to do cartwheels!

Here's a BIG THANK YOU to *everyone* on SI for your support though this ordeal. I can't even begin to tell you all how much it's meant to me. Obviously prayer, karma & good thoughts do work and help!!! I know that came from all of you & my family. I will *never* forget that!

Now it's time for me to put this ordeal where it belongs.... in the past. I really do feel I've been given a new lease on life. Someone or something wants me around on this planet for a while longer. I plan on doing my very best to appreciate every moment of this gift I've been given. Where that takes me I don't know... and it really doesn't matter. All that does matter is right *now*, and right now is pretty damn awesome in my book!

Thanks Again,
~ PA53


Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 60 | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle

Posts: 868 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Midwest
Ellejay
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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is brilliant news! So happy for you. All that positive energy has paid off big time.

Wishing you the best possible recovery and future health.


Ellejay


Married 25 years now divorced.
D-Day: 20/11/10
Me: 48.5 plus 10% GST
Him: mental age 6 (apologies to all 6 year olds)
Betrayal: Who cares anymore?

Posts: 1094 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Adelaide, South Australia
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Best news ever!!!! I'm so very happy for you. *does a little dance*


If you can't learn to enjoy your life when you have problems, you may never enjoy it because we'll always have problems. - Joyce Meyer

Posts: 16975 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!!! Now go enjoy the rest of your life! Like you needed to be told.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5013 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 11:15 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very happy for you PA53.


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Posts: 5634 | Registered: Aug 2007
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 11:33 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome news! So happy for you. Go out and celebrate!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3572 | Registered: Oct 2011
sadtoo
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Default  Posted: 12:43 AM, January 25th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful news!!!


It is what it is, not what we hope it can be.

When another woman takes your husband,
sometimes the best thing you can do for
yourself is to LET HER HAVE the worthless
bum.
OC born 2001
Divorced 2003
Remarried 2008 (New Guy)


Posts: 8001 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Iowa
Edie
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Default  Posted: 2:12 AM, January 25th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh fantastic, have been keeping everything crossed for you,


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 5056 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
Edie
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Default  Posted: 2:12 AM, January 25th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh fantastic, have been keeping everything crossed for you,


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 5056 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
Audrina
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Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, January 25th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news:):)

[This message edited by Audrina at 9:42 AM, January 25th (Saturday)]


Me (betrayed): 35
Him:45


Posts: 266 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Canada
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, January 25th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so happy to hear this ((((PA))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

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