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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 3:59 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We have some members who were her regularly disappear and while I am happy that perhaps they have healed enough to move on I do wonder about them.

Aesir
Dlmos
Uncertainone
Tiredgirl
Hardlessons

Anyone know anything?


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."


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SI Staff
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Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aesir, Uncertainone, Tiredgirl & Hardlessons were banned a few months ago.

We (staff) can only issue so many warnings regarding guideline violations before we have to take action.


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 4:25 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh ok I had no idea thanks so much.


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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 4:27 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dlmos is doing well and does occasionally post, especially in F&G.


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks gahurts!


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HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 12:42 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We have some members who were her regularly disappear and while I am happy that perhaps they have healed enough to move on I do wonder about them.

I sometimes wonder about the same thing.

Question for the SI Staff...Is it possible to have some sort of icon in a members profile that would indicate when a profile has been deactivated? The icon would not have to convey any other information, but that would show other members a possible explanation for someone's disappearance.

Unagie, sometimes you can make an educated guess about someone's disappearance by going to their SI profile and searching through the recent posts.


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
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SBB
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Default  Posted: 5:33 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for asking the question Unagie.

Aesir and Uncertainone were two of my favourite posters. I've been looking around for them for some time. I was hoping they were taking a hiatus.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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hurtsobadinside
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SI Staff

a question please... I have never received a warning...so thats a good thing for me

What causes warnings to occur? is there a page in the library that gives the "no-no" topics for what is not allowed??

thank you SI staff.


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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 8:40 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hurtsobadinside,

The Guidelines are pretty simple. The link is in the box up on the left. Each forum description lists anything special for that forum

I've included the Guidelines here:

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Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Question for the SI Staff...Is it possible to have some sort of icon in a members profile that would indicate when a profile has been deactivated? The icon would not have to convey any other information, but that would show other members a possible explanation for someone's disappearance.

We do our best to respect everyone's privacy whether they follow the guidelines or not so it wouldn't be appropriate to show the existing members when another has left the SI community


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

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HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We do our best to respect everyone's privacy whether they follow the guidelines or not so it wouldn't be appropriate to show the existing members when another has left the SI community

I understand. Thanks DS.


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.


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hurtsobadinside
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wifehad5 and Deeply Scared

Thank You....


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