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User Topic: Prayers for my niece, her husband and his family
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh my goodness. I'm just in shock and heartbroken.

My niece and her H have been married about ten years. We were all kinda doubtful about him when we first met him. He has multiple piercings, tats... My dad referred to him as the Human Tacklebox for a while. Did we ever learn about judging by appearances. This guy is an absolute dream. Treats my niece like a queen. Is a wonderful father to their kids.

A few months ago, his mom was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer that had spread to her liver. She passed away yesterday. Tough enough, to lose your mom right before Christmas. Today, his dad collapsed and died in the ambulance on the way to a hospital.

Just so sad. It's just Mike and his sister to deal with this. He is 30... I think his sister is a year or two older. They each have 2 young kids.

So if you think about it, lift a prayer or a kind thought up for my niece Valerie, her husband Mike, his sister, Sundari, and their kids.

Thank you.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

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lemony.2008
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Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, I'm so so sorry, so much loss and grief! It's so heartbreaking, especially so close to Christmas...

Sending prayers and healing thoughts to your family.


((((((Mike, Valerie, Sundari, 4 young kids, HFSSC and family)))))

Please take care.

[This message edited by lemony.2008 at 11:59 PM, December 23rd (Monday)]


Feel the feelings and drop the story. - Pema Chodron


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doggiediva
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Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My thoughts and prayers to your family...It's hard enough to lose parents, I can't imagine losing parents within a day of each other :-(


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Lola88
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Default  Posted: 11:01 PM, December 23rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thoughts and prayers for your family, life is so cruel at times.

(((Hugs)))


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:03 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Valerie, Mike, Sundari, and kids)))

I am so sorry. Sending strength and prayers.




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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:00 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holding them all in my thoughts.


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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hurting2much
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Default  Posted: 6:33 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((HFSSC, Valerie, Mike,Sundari and kids)))). So very sorry.


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Tred
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Default  Posted: 6:53 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Valerie, Mike, Sundari, and kids)))

So sorry HFSSC. What a tragedy at any time of the year.


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D-Day: 11/09/11
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Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers. I can't imagine having to deal with that kind of heartbreak EVER, much less at such a young age AND at Christmas. It's almost beyond comprehension.

Hugs to them all.


"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

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Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 8:50 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


((((((Mike, Valerie, Sundari, 4 young kids, HFSSC and family)))))

I am so very soory for their losses. This family is in my prayers.


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers sent..I'm so sorry for their losses.

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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is so sad... I'm so sorry for your Niece's Husband and his family... My prayers are with them.


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 2:01 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're all in my thoughts... so terribly sad.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, y'all. Valerie just posted that they will be burying them together on Thursday.

His dad had a massive heart attack. His mom was 59, and his dad a couple of years older.

Hug those you love extra tight.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2483 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 4:11 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My condolences, especially because this was way too early for them.


FBH (me) - 65+, FWW (her) - 65+, Married 45+, together almost 49 (as of January, 2014)
DDay - 12/2010
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Posts: 8912 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 4:13 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I cannot even imagine the pain.

I am so sorry.

Prayers to your family.


ďAnd the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossomĒ
AnaÔs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3232 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
Audrina
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Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tragic...I'll say a little prayer for them tonight.


Me (betrayed): 35
Him:45


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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awwwww....this is so sad. I'll keep them in my prayers.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


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Skan
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Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's just horrible. I'll be holding the entire family in my prayers.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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AgainandAgain
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Default  Posted: 12:23 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers to the family. I can't imagine the pain right now for him. It's always heartbreaking to lose a love one but at this time of year makes it even worse.

Again, prayers to them.


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