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User Topic: here's to us - holiday hangout thread
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 12:22 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Why are East Coasters so soft? It's only a little after 10 and you guys are quittin' already.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1751 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:24 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can someone please tell DD to fall asleep so I can wrap her presents?

Posts: 35849 | Registered: Mar 2011
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 12:43 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DD GO TO SLEEP or JpapaClause will stop by and you do not want to see him at this hour.

[This message edited by Jpapageorge at 12:45 AM, December 25th (Wednesday)]


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1751 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:47 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

JpapaClause

Love it!

Thank you for the chuckle. I needed it. It's almost 2am and she is finally asleep.


Posts: 35849 | Registered: Mar 2011
Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 12:47 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DD#2 finally fell asleep!!
Just finished putting out the presents and filling the stockings.
Now I'm awake!
It's 1:45 am!
It's all good since I'm not sure if next year I will be playing Santa.
When is the jig up?
My girls are 9. Not sure they 100% believe this year.
I've been Santa always.
It's a little bittersweet.

ETA: Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night.

[This message edited by Lola2kids at 12:54 AM, December 25th (Wednesday)]


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1420 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 12:51 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Took the dog to the beach on my way to my sister's. 70 degrees. NorCal rules baby! Drove the lonesome Coast Highway back home after dark with lots of stars glinting.

Now I'm tucked into my fleecy sheets in my tiny house.

Having a scotch - a wee nip o' the Oban I bought to celebrate my new job.

Merry Christmas from the balmy left coast! Don't forget your sunscreen.


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1220 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
GotPlayed
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Default  Posted: 1:02 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

heartbroken_kk, you're not far from me. And it definitely rules, though WW has made a temporary PTSD trigger out of the beach for me. I'll recover soon though. I refuse to let her character flaws dictate my behavior.

Congratulations on the new job!

And I'll have a tiny house soon too. 2014 is going to be awesome.


Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
BS 42, WW 41. 18y married
DD: 11/5/13
DS10 Autism, DD8
OM: Reformed wife-beater ex-con
D filed 1/14/14 by WW (never warn them, they'll get ahead)
Married a powder keg

Posts: 755 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: California
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 1:11 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jo, JpapaClause is like Santa except JpapaClause only has a goatee, isn't jolly, takes the milk and cookies AND the toys and isn't very quiet when he comes in.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1751 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 1:18 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm finally able to sit down for a breather tonight. I've been going non-stop.

I could use an egg nog and some of those cookies about now.

Jpapa, can you pass me some Christmas Crack?


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7824 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 1:34 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Merry Christmas peeps!!!

I brought DS12 into my room this morning and said, "You're 12. It is time to become part of the magic of Christmas." The look on his face was priceless!!!

So Christmas is ready for morning... which it already is!

I had to eat the Santa cookies. And enjoy the moment. It got done! small miracle that.

On a glitter note: my mom used ribbon with glitter. Everyone was covered in glitter by the time the gifts were distributed. I felt like SI was there.

Merry Christmas all!!!

FF, Christmas veggies??


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5859 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
hangingonin
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Default  Posted: 2:10 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's 8am here in the UK on Christmas morning.
Happy Christmas to you all

Posts: 77 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: SE England, UK
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:56 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Merry Christmas, everyone! I hope you have a wonderful day.


@Jpapageorge


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Waiting4Daylite
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Default  Posted: 5:13 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For everyone here:

Merry Christmas!
Happy Christmas!
Joyeux Noël!
¡Feliz Navidad
Frohe Weihnachten!
Buon Natale!


Posts: 1841 | Registered: Jul 2012
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 5:43 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Merry Christmas everyone!!!


BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2628 | Registered: Aug 2012
SurprisinglyOkay
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Default  Posted: 5:50 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Merry Christmas!!

Hope you day is full of love and light!


FWS me 36 (recovering addict)
BS him 39 AFrayedKnot
Together 7 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1134 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 6:05 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Merry Christmas!!

Stay safe and warm!!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3845 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 7:05 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Merry Christmas!!!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52596 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
cayc
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Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Merry Christmas!

All that eggnog, rumchata and rompope last night and no hangover! How is that possible


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 3120 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
tesla
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Default  Posted: 8:00 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Merry Christmas!
Been enjoying reading this thread while I drink my coffee and count down the minutes till I can leave and get Teslet!!!

All the presents are out. Stocking is stuffed. Special little surprises tucked away in various places to be discovered.

Christmas picnic of chicken wings, chocolate milk, and apple pie ready to roll.

But first, our new tradition of a popcorn brunch at the movie theatre.

I'll be stopping in for a drink tonight.
Why have I never heard of butter rum? It sounds fabulous...somebody get something ready with that in it!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4683 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:10 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Merry Christmas, everyone.

Presents have been opened and stockings emptied. Bring on the coffee and sloth!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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