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User Topic: *I* am betraying my vows??????
Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If I decide I dont want to deal with his addiction (because it's a disease) I am breaking the part where I vowed to support him in sickness

Sometimes the only way thru to an addict is by completely abandoning them to the consequences of their choices. I say this as somebody who has far to much experience with drug/alcohol addicts. It is far less loving for you to enable their poor decisions.

As others have said, he is trying to manipulate you. Protect you & your kiddos. Hopefully that will be the impetus for your WH to get his shit together.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

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