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User Topic: I'm here for you all ........
booger bear
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Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's 5:00 somewhere, right ???

On my 2nd drink and only one knife incident so far ...


I am fiercely independent and I won’t apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

Posts: 18730 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here, but not there ...
marlie2014
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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you so much for your kind thoughts. I wondered today if I were crazy...people kept telling me how wonderfully I was dealing with the situation, but today I did have a breakdown and have been incredibly sad.

It is so good to know that the future will be brighter.


BS: 33
WS: 35 and definitely SA
Married: 9 years
1 stepchild, now 18 years old
DDay: 9/2/2013
ONS: Multiples over at least a 6-year period, at least twenty
1 OC 5 yrs old and another on the way (by different ONS)
DIVORCED AND FREE!!!!

Posts: 211 | Registered: Oct 2013
booger bear
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Cool  Posted: 11:04 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well it's over for some of you, others we still have just over an hour, other have 2-3+ hours left.

Newsflash you all made it break downs and all. Now that is saying something about YOU as a person, your resolve to get through this even when it is just unfuckingbearable. Not gonna lie here, I still have moments when it get's like that, good news .... they are fewer, I have better control of them(can even feel them coming on, sometimes)So I am better prepared. I have my mental emergency kit, emotional one, and some IRL ones. Sometimes I need them sometimes I don't, nice to know they are there though, just in case.

Now we prepare for one of the favorite holidays of single people all over, and those of us who are not by choice ..... New Years Eve has always been worse for me than V-day. Not sure why, guess I always fell jipped on this day. I was single for many years, when Xh and became an item -- he always had to work, had to be in bed early cause he had to work so early, or we were at a party/hanging out and he was off being a social butterfly and I was alone(essentially, even surrounded by others) always looking for him to come be with me.

I was never able to capture the magic of our 1st New Years Eve .... That first one the one that started everything off, was epic. Nothing after ever came even close ......

OOPS ---- sorry rambled and T/J'ed my own thread ...

More hugs and wishes for you all to have a soft, warm, safe place to rest your heads/hearts I know they have taken a beating ....

You made it though .... We knew you could


I am fiercely independent and I won’t apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

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