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User Topic: I need hugs. I am in such grief
Edie
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Default  Posted: 4:42 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Last night, Christmas Eve, he died. The person closest to me in the world. Since birth.


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 5060 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:48 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Edie))))

I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers and strength.


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Edie
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Default  Posted: 4:57 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Jo. I didn't say before, in case TMI, but he was my twin. He died so very bravely.


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

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suckstobeme
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Default  Posted: 5:10 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh no! I'm so sorry. Sending you many hugs and prayers.


BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.

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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 5:12 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My condolences, Edie.

Covering you in prayer.


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


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Kodi
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Default  Posted: 5:29 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry.
(((Edie)))

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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 5:32 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Edie))))


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:33 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Edie, I'm so sorry for your loss.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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travels
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Default  Posted: 7:00 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Edie))))


When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 7:03 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Edie)))

My deepest condolences on your lost. Sending you prayers.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 7:04 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Edie)). I am so very sorry. Sending prayers to you and your family.


People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not

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Grace and Flowers
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Default  Posted: 8:27 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Edie)))))
Words aren't enough to express how terribly sorry I am at your terrible loss.


I'm Happy, not Sad!

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Thriving
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Default  Posted: 8:42 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Edie)))) I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers of comfort to you and your family. If you want to talk about him, we'll listen.


"Trust is earned, respect is given, and loyalty is demonstrated. Betrayal of any of one of those is to lose all three." - Anon.

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solus sto
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Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, (((Edie)))). I am so very sorry. So sorry.


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

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Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Edie, I am so sorry for your loss. Surrounding you in prayers and hugs.


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

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betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh((((Edie)))) I am so very sorry, you and your family are in my prayers.


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 9:19 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your loss. (((Edie)))


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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cayc
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Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((edie)))


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Edie)))) I am so very sorry, honey. Holding you in my thoughts.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

{{{{{Edie}}}}}


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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