Topic: I need hugs. I am in such grief
Member # 29295
| Posted: 8:13 AM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013|
...second star to the right and straight on till morning.
Posts: 1837 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: UK
Member # 21101
| Posted: 8:43 AM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013|
Words can never be enough when it comes to dealing with loss, but may you find peace and comfort in the warm memories you have.
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy
Posts: 7803 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Member # 33338
| Posted: 8:48 AM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013|
I am so very sorry for your loss. I can't imagine. Praying for peace and comfort for you and your entire family.
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.
Posts: 2659 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
Member # 19258
| Posted: 9:01 AM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013|
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Posts: 8407 | Registered: Apr 2008
Member # 26367
| Posted: 9:36 AM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013|
So very sorry to hear of your loss!
Me: BW (54)
Him: WH (61)
7/14/11 - Divorced
Posts: 1806 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: another world
Member # 33457
| Posted: 9:44 AM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013|
I'm sorry Edie. Sending prayers and peace to you.
Posts: 1762 | Registered: Sep 2011
Member # 20152
| Posted: 10:23 AM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013|
Peace be with you and yours at this difficult time. (((Edie)))
XBS - 42 and fabulous :D
Remarried happily in 2013
A relationship is built for two. But apparently, some bitches don't know how to count!
Posts: 602 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: The Chesapeake Bay
Member # 33806
| Posted: 11:01 AM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013|
Don't tie your happiness to the tail of somebody else's kite
Posts: 1136 | Registered: Nov 2011
Member # 24849
| Posted: 11:24 AM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013|
(((Edie))) I am so sorry for your loss.
FWW - 40
I'm big on personal responsibility. Own your shit. ALL OF IT.
Posts: 5767 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
Member # 14917
| Posted: 7:09 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013|
I'm so sorry for your loss Edie. ((((Hugs))))) and prayers.
Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17
Posts: 1290 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Massachusetts
Member # 31468
| Posted: 7:23 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013|
I am so sorry Edie. I can't imagine how you must feel, especially the closeness of a twin. ((Hugs))
Together 9 yrs
Status: Divorced 4/27/11
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling
Posts: 4375 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Member # 25238
| Posted: 7:30 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013|
I am so very sorry for your loss. I am a twin, so I can especially relate. I have also lost two brothers.
My sincere condolences.
Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)
Posts: 2839 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it
Member # 6449
| Posted: 9:18 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013|
(((Edie&family))) So sorry for your loss.
~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
Posts: 9654 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
Member # 29341
| Posted: 9:31 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013|
Edie I am so sorry. I have a twin brother too & there are just no words. I am so incredibly sorry.
We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.
Posts: 6556 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
|trying to smile|
Member # 9683
| Posted: 10:31 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013|
Oh Edie, such a profound loss.
Sending love XXxx
May we know them,
May we be them,
May we raise them.
Do, or do not. There is no try.
Posts: 5932 | Registered: Feb 2006 | From: The Land Down Under
Member # 9973
| Posted: 10:48 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013|
I am so very sorry.
I wish I had read this before I posted something so frivolous earlier.
Your post is a reminder of what is truly important in this life. Thank you for sharing your personal grief and love for someone so dear to you.
Sending you a hug and praying for God's comfort to wrap you up and keep you.
As others have said, words are not enough.
Shock has worn off. Now the 'fun' begins.
After several years of solid R, (F)MOW
CHECKS IN in to say Hi~ H CHECKS OUT briefly and "forgets to tell me" because IT HADN'T gotten
physical this time. 4 months out again same MOW
Posts: 2852 | Registered: Mar 2006 | From: The Valley
Member # 24261
| Posted: 12:25 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013|
Edie I've only just seen this.
I'm so very sorry for your loss. I can't imagine. There are no words. Sending strength and peace to you.
DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??
I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)
Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!
Posts: 4960 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
Member # 18449
| Posted: 12:28 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013|
Posts: 11401 | Registered: Mar 2008
Member # 27650
| Posted: 12:44 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013|
Edie, you often had perfect words for me, I have a loss for what to say other than to say I am sorry for you.
LTA BS 53
M 1990, dday 10-5-09
Separated and Divorcing
Posts: 4085 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: FL
Member # 32546
| Posted: 12:48 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013|
(((Edie))) May you find peace in the memories you have.
Me:BS (46) Him:WH (46)
Married 20 years/together 26
Two DS 16/14
DD#1 2/1994 (PA) DD#2 1997-2000?? several EA DD#3 2/17/2011 PA 6 months DD#4 7/13/2011 My Space Account (from 20007) looking for casual sex 10/17/2011 DD#1,000,000... new EA
Posts: 195 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: los angeles
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