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User Topic: and it continues...
better4me
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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


So, first was the unexpected and unwelcome visit from my XMIL this week, and then "this" this morning. A text from XH. "Merry Christmas better". Ugh, just ugh.

I responded with crickets of course, but now he is on my mind again. Which was his intent. Fucker. It's been 3 damn years. LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE!!!

But, other than that I'm doing really well and enjoying my holiday. So, ho ho ho after all!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 2828 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Merry Christmas!

Can you block him?




Posts: 30753 | Registered: Mar 2011
k94ever
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Obviously XMIL has talked to her son.

Sorry you are being put through this.

k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6330 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:21 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((b4me)))) Ugh ugh ugh.


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


Posts: 22710 | Registered: Aug 2011
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 7:28 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

text him this


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 elementary school-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 8792 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
cayc
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Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, December 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oooh NG, so many uses for that text!


BS 45, WH 38
M 8 years, together 10
Real DDay 10/07/11
Too many OW to count.
D final on 6/21/12
The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed.
- Martina Navratilova

Posts: 2795 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
better4me
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Default  Posted: 10:53 AM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cooties. hahahahah

Number is now blocked. Shoulda done it sooner.


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 2828 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
newnormal
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, December 26th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

T/J from another post : santa must have sprinkled some forget the past dust on WH.

Santa was a very bad and busy boy yesterday.


BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo


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