With regard to his texts, he's an idiot. I would imagine both your kids have phones and can ignore them all on their own.
All I can say is ACTIONS, meet CONSEQUENCES. And....FTG....
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling
BLOCK her number!
OMG - did she really say "he loves those girls beyond anything, truly"???? Evidently not, bitch. He abandoned them.
I am so angry for you right now.
IGNORE their attempts to take their lousy attempts at laying blame. You are NOT the bad guy.
One of the things I used to talk about with my daughter when there were some girls saying bad things about her (or her hair or something that young girls get hurt over) -- who said this? Is this person someone you respect? If not, then why does what they say matter to you and upset you? Pay attention to those you love and respect and IGNORE the idiots!!!!!!
And his whore is an idiot!
PS: Mind if I cuss a little?
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!
They blame shift because they have never taken responsibility for anything in their life. It is always someone else's fault or "fate" or "just meant to be".
They will never say I made this choice and will accept the consequences of my actions.
The OW is getting involved because she sees what the consequences are doing to your WH. He is not happy, he misses his DDs, and she is trying to fix it because it is making her fairytale life uncomfortable for her.
Block her number, if WH is in cardiac arrest she can call 911, not you. If he dies alone that is on him. There is no reason for her to contact you or your daughters block her from their phones as well she is NO ONE to them or you except the sludge that destroyed your family.
I am glad your children stood up for themselves. Mine did he same- and the Dooosh promptly blocked HER from his social media. Why? Well that image he's creating is one of the victim, the man who has had everything taken from him, and now he has finally.. After 20 years of marital HELL.. Finally discovered the true meaning of luuurve.
Can't have the reality of an affair, abandoning your wife and children, restraining order, lying and cheating lifestyle come to light by the truth from your 13 year old go messing all that hard work up now can we?? It's got to be tough to manage all those lies.
So that's why they will claim it's all your fault. It allows the facade to continue. I've learned that everything wrong with the Dooosh is my fault. (Yes, I feel so special and oh so powerful!). It's kind of the running joke with my son now. Haha!
Block the whore and let them spiral their way to hell. After all, their are living the life they finally deserve, right?
There is hope. Once you truly commit to focusing on yourself and letting go, it comes back, and you will appreciate it like never before.