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User Topic: It's Friday...
tesla
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Weird when the weekend falls right in the middle of new year's and Christmas.

Anybody got anything going on or is everyone recovering from Christmas?

I save Teslet from the bowels of chaos tomorrow and we are off to Denver for a week to visit family. My brother (who is 11 years younger than me) has plans to take me out for a New Year's Eve party...I highly doubt that I'm capable of handling his version of New Year's Eve.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4618 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
peacelovetea
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Default  Posted: 11:06 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A friend is helping me do some minor renovation work, so we will keep going with that. I am also doing some touch ups on paint and such, since the kids are gone all weekend. Gotta clean and paint while they aren't here! In between work we will eat and be merry I am sure, so it won't be all drudgery.


BW, SAHM
D-Day: 6/5/09, drunken ONS on business trip, confessed immediately, transparent, remorseful but emotionally clueless
M 11 years, 3 kids
4/12 Tried to R for 3 years, have decided to D
12/31/12 D final

Posts: 542 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: PacNW
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Best of luck with that, tesla.

I was planning to head to my sister's this weekend, but there's illness there, so I'm going to spend the weekend purging excess crap from my garage (highs tomorrow in the 40s!) and my basement instead. And maybe take in a movie?


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25259 | Registered: Aug 2011
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 11:12 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tonight is a sleepover at my sister's house in preparation for our Family Christmas GTG tomorrow at our Baby Sis's.

I'm . Should be interesting. (See OT for details )

Sunday morning is WW weigh-in. I know I've gained something over these past few days (at least I have per my home scale), but I gave my self a +5 pound window to enjoy the holidays so we shall see exactly what the damages are.

Then church, the Y for a good workout (if this cold I've gotten subsides) and later in the afternoon I'm meeting a college pal for the Packers/Bears matchup at her favorite watering hole. As usual, I'll be decked out in Broncos gear. Hopefully there won't be too many haters there.

Have a great weekend!


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21048 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 11:27 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SO is coming over Saturday to spend some time with me and the girl bananas. They've met in passing a couple times but want to start getting to know each other a bit.

I've been waiting for the green light from the girls (and he's completely respectful of their comfort level and timeline) and they say they're ready. It's been almost eight months and seems right. Fingers crossed!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15391 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Catwoman
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Default  Posted: 11:31 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tonight, I am taking my daughters out for fajitas and 'ritas (iced tea for me--I am the DD). Tomorrow out with my oldest going consignment store shopping with a trip to see GDM and his new dog. Not sure about tomorrow night. Sunday they both work and go back to their dad's house. It is all good.

Cat


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 25 and 22. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

Posts: 29606 | Registered: Apr 2003 | From: Massachusetts
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hanging out with newlysingle, going ice skates shopping, and mall hopping. We are going to see some Christmas lights, and have a nice dinner.
Then I gotta come home and clean my mess of a house.
Then I may be DD so newlysingle can have a few very cold and yummy margaritas!
Denver sounds really nice!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2230 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have my family staying with me so we are having a great holiday! I will be doing some home improvement over the weekend, a little shopping, and lots of eating!!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3579 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm in Zagreb, Croatia for the weekend.

Someone pinch me.


Posts: 1675 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tonight, taking IrishLad to his dad. Tomorrow, clean my room, find places for all the gifts, go to my aunt's house for another Christmas. Sunday, Costco shopping and detailing the car with the new stuff I got for Christmas.


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1748 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We saw the movie Frozen this morning. It was cute. Everyone liked it.

Tonight, I've got to wrap a bunch of presents for a party tomorrow.

Tomorrow, spending the day at my parents' house.

No plans for Sunday. Will probably get caught up on some housework and laundry.

XH found work for the week so DSs have been home all week except for Christmas Eve. I love them, but it's been a bit much!!


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4165 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I spent yesterday recovering from the Christmas blowout at my friend's house. Yikes.
Work today.
Dinner at my sister's with my kiddos tonight.
Tomorrow I'm not sure how we will entertain ourselves. Perhaps I will take the kids shopping so they can spend they gift cards.
Sunday we are seeing Frozen.


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2589 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:24 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been almost eight months and seems right. Fingers crossed!
Fingers AND toes crossed here, nanners! (Eight months already? Really?)

I'm in Zagreb, Croatia for the weekend.
Holy smokes, h0peless!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25259 | Registered: Aug 2011
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm in Zagreb, Croatia for the weekend.

Quit rubbing it in H0peless!!!!
Ahggggg, ok you win hands down!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2230 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nothing much going on here. I'm spending some more time with my kids and my family, and then the kids are going to XWH's house for NYE/NYD (and the really important Wednesday overnight visitation that they all love). So, I will be using that time to go see a movie and then get some grading done. No party plans... I'm not a NYE party person. I'd much rather do something quiet.

Happy weekend, all!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3595 | Registered: Oct 2011
MUSICMAN
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Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Recovering from Hip replacement surgery. staying in out the cold.


Lot of water under the bridge...lot of other stuff too....Bob Dylan

Posts: 318 | Registered: Nov 2003 | From: South Carolina
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 5:32 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today I went shopping for sales. Didn't find a bunch unfortunately. I took my DD and 2 of her friends, they didn't find much either when they were done.

Just finished watching the Dr. Who Christmas special with DD and another friend. She's the fan, but I enjoyed it.

Saturday I'm heading over to watch a student of mine in a sledge hockey game. I'm looking forward to it; I've never watched a real game of sledge before. It's cool.

After that I'm just cleaning for teh rest of the weekend, I think. Need to set up our trip to see the new Hobbit with the mom of DD's friend for the 4 of us.


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5475 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 7:56 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Heading out soon to visit with DS and family for a while.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2328 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
Bebba1171
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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Went to a visitation for a golf buddy that just passed away due to pancreatic cancer.

His sister in law that he had wanted me to meet was there. She had heard about me through him and I found out she has been divorced three times - all due to infidelity!

Her last husband is now with an 18 yo Chinese girl. My guess is that she is in her late 40's.

Took my Daughter and my Corgis on a five mile hike around a lake today which was nice. Daughter is over at X's house now. Corgis are passed out in my bedroom..

Having my daughter here has been wonderful. She is helping clear out a lot of things I don't need anymore.

Playing golf with several of my pals tomorrow which will be awesome. Supposed to be in the mid-50's here.

Big basketball game on TV in the afternoon - Kentucky vs Louisville. My son will be here to watch.

Not sure what I will do after that. Keeping low key on the dating front for a few days while the kids are in town so I can be available to them

Sunday will be church, assisted living place, and then likely watch some football.

[This message edited by Bebba1171 at 9:07 PM, December 27th (Friday)]


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 52 (Me) / XWW 50 - ages back in 2011
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 727 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: USA
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Worked late tonight. Tomorrow, I'm going to see my nephew play hockey, then shopping with mom.

Sunday, go Steelers!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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