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ajsmom
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Shutup  Posted: 10:49 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll be needing all your good thoughts tomorrow as I head into our Family Christmas celebration. The two family members that made our holidays such a joke last year will be there. Baby Sis Beotch is hosting and Beotch Niece will be attending with that very special snowflake kid of hers.

I’ve not seen either of them in well over a year and haven’t spoken to either of them since the whole Chuck E. Cheesegate last December. My plan is simple – to walk in, greet the hostess and her family, hand the cards with checks over to the under 18 niece and nephews, then promptly find a seat somewhere and not move until it’s time to leave.

As to the niece, I plan to mumble a hello (no hugs – she gets NO hugs from me!) tap the snowflake on the melon hello, and return to my seat. Sis has made it crystal clear there will be no alcohol provided, so I may just have to be totin’ a little sumptin’, sumptin’ to get me through the two or so hours I plan to be there before my *cough, cough* - “next obligation”.

Which just happens to be the closest tavern.

Cover me, peeps! Will report back later.


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21071 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
tesla
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Default  Posted: 10:55 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck ajsmom...sending you good thoughts of a conveniently pocket sized flask.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4687 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We've got your back. Don't forget to park where you can't be blocked in.

Strength, sister!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25774 | Registered: Aug 2011
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 11:13 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't forget to park where you can't be blocked in.

Oh, yes - must remember this!

Thanks!

[This message edited by ajsmom at 11:20 AM, December 27th (Friday)]


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21071 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can you have someone call you to let you know you're 'late' for your next 'obligation'? Hasty goodbyes and you're out the door!

Good luck!


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20292 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 12:10 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Ajsmom)))

I too have my dysfunctional family Christmas tomorrow, and there is never alcohol, at least now they allow us to bring our own, they just won't provide it. I already have my flask of Bourbon ready.

I will think of you, as my Step-Mother-in-Law stress over the ham, and the Step-Brothers-in-law talk about their favorite weed is, and ponder why the youngest grandchild is developmentally delayed.....

I too plan to sit in a corner quietly, and hope that work needs me, or there is a honeybee swarm to capture or something to assist us out the door in a timely fashion.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8718 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo coming your way.


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending mojo and good thoughts.

Posts: 35929 | Registered: Mar 2011
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You got it. Sending loads of mojo!!

((((ajsmom))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2615 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're going......because?????

But since you are, flasks of mojo comin' at ya!


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7285 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Double tequila shot in the car before going in. That's how I cope with the dysfunctional side (Mom's) of the family.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2244 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck AJ!!! You can do it!!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9827 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AJ's Mom... You have all my support going in and getting out alive and in one piece.

You have way more strength than I... I don't even pretend that I want to see my family. They know I don't like them... and I am pretty sure they don't like me.

Hang Tough!!!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24597 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 4:18 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending mojo for coverage, may it act like an invisibility cloak to the people you want to avoid.

Hugs,
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5282 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope it goes well! Nothing better than being enclosed in a room with difficult family members for an unknown amount of time. I did it for years, and I'm still standing. Mojo to you!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 9:53 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck today, ajsmom. Sending you mojo to have a day filled with peace and serenity.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9801 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
hexed
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Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you today!

Send you strength, calm, and a BIIIIIIG glass of wine.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just checking for an update. Hope all went well!


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4209 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
movingforward777
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Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hopefully you had a wonderful Christmas with your family and did not let the "bitches" ruin things for you......HUGS


You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith

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