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User Topic: Joyful Resolutions
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:30 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm not a big fan of New Year's resolutions. I did make one last NYE, however. I wanted more joy in my life, so I resolved to dance (at least a little) every day this year. And I have to tell you, it was awesome! And it is the only resolution I've ever made that made me happy each and every time I acted on it.

So I'm working on a similar resolution for 2014. One that brings me happiness rather than feeling like an obligation. Several ideas bouncing around in my head still, but I have a couple of days before I make the call.

Anyone want to join me in making a joyful resolution?


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 11:46 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I resolve to cackle joyfully in public and feel no shame.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:51 AM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!


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"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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ItHappened2Me2
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Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll join in -- but I'm gonna have to give some thought as to what my resolution will be.

LOVE the dance resolution


BS - me (52); WS - him (52)
DD 15yo, DS 11 yo
Married 25 years (together 27+/-)
DDay #1 - March 18, 2011
DD #2 (after 3 + month TT and false R -- the affair had gone underground) - June 28,2011
DD3: June 19, 2013 - he started up again with the

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My resolution? Hmmmm.


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TheRealDeal
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Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

resolved to dance (at least a little) every day

Thank you NIK, I love it enough to make it a resolution for 2014!

And my other resolution would have to be not to care what I look like when I dance, just get up and dance!

The timing of your post is perfect...I had just got done registering for a belly-dance class, something I've wanted to do for a long time. First class starts January 5 and I've talked my friend and her daughter into joining me too.


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together 18 years
DDay1 March 2013, Dday2 April 27, 2013, Dday3 June 1, 2013
We are in R and trying to make it
Never lose yourself trying to hang onto someone who doesn't care about losing you.

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

More yay!


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"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Default  Posted: 3:01 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A few years ago I resolved to make no more New Year's resolutions and I have managed to follow through.

Out of respect for the Empress, I resolve to smile in public at least once this year.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll take it! Yay!


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"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 4:24 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I resolve to take it as it comes. Whatever it is.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Also, I resolve to go on a trip, or several. I don't know how or where, but I want to, so I will.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Go, meta!


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"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Default  Posted: 4:55 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A friend makes a list of 101 things to do in the New Year.

I'm boring. I can't come up with 101 things to do. My list is stalled at 53 things to do in 2014.

Anyway, one of the things on my list for 2013 was to dance everyday.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 5:21 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it, travels! Not sure I could even come up with 53.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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goodbye_virginia
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Default  Posted: 6:54 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I did the MC Hammer dance at Jersey Mike's today.


Me- BW 35
Him - WH 43

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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I resolve to hug my DS a little more often and a little tighter every single day... He's growing up so fast.

I resolve to laugh out loud with my family everyday... in some way over anything we can find to laugh about.

I resolve to find joy in the everyday!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay, jrc!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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HUFI-PUFI
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Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


[This message edited by HUFI-PUFI at 10:03 PM, December 27th (Friday)]


Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 10:14 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I always resolve to be a better mom, sister, daughter, and friend. That's always my number one.

But, I do have two others.

The first is to start piecing together the quilt that my great aunt was making for me when she died. She left behind all of the pre-made squares, some sections that were put together, and tons of squares that need to be filled and stitched up. I would feel kind of amazing if I did that.

The other is to Write The Novel. I have been wanting to do that for years. Maybe putting together the quilt is more realistic!

Anyway, I'm putting those out there to encourage some follow-through on my part!


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Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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Gajit
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Default  Posted: 6:55 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So far mine are:

1. quit smoking (again, already using e-cigs so trying)

2. be a better housekeeper

3. get a job


Lord, with Your help I will focus on each small step of the climb, instead of the mountain that stands before me.

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