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User Topic: New Years skin!!!
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It just reminded me of late December back in 2008, my final d-day. Because of a post by a veteran, I decided I couldn't start my 2009 with any more lies.

I am so grateful for that post and for my moment of clarity.

I hope that wherever you are in this journey, that 2014 brings all of you love and peace.

Also, please remember the magical place that SI is. Sometimes we think our posts go unheard, unread, or don't make an impact. You never know when a post, or even a sentence, will change someone's life.

All of us here have value. Thank you all for your continued devotion and support to SI and to each other.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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steadfast1973
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Content  Posted: 3:49 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So many posts have helped be so much in the past 4 years. SI has been a huge godsend to me through both ddays.


Me- 40- BS Him- 36- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 3 mo. EA d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute 11/5/13 in R
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah."- Leonard Cohen

Posts: 2256 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Midwest
devasted30
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Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've said it before and I'll say it again. I couldn't have made it through this pain without all you guys. I'm sure I'll need everyone's counsel for many, many months (years) to come. It's so good to be with others who have been where I am. It's so great to know, I am not alone.

Posts: 1168 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
cantaccept
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Default  Posted: 5:36 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will be forever grateful for the compassionate and heartfelt people that I have met here.

This site has helped and continues to help me through this difficult time.

The kind and thoughtful people here helped me to hold on to my faith in people. I have experience such kindness that it leaves me in awe.

I remember how I found this site. In 2012, a couple of weeks after dday #1, I was so alone, every night in such agony. I just sat down at the computer and typed in "surviving infidelity", here you all were. Amazing. This community of kind, compassionate, caring and intelligent people, waiting to help, wanting to help. I felt so alone, so abandoned and you were all here giving of yourselves. Truly amazing.

During false R, I could come here and get the support and compassion missing in my real life. That held me up, kept me strong, let me hold on to the knowledge that compassion was real, not just a fantasy.

I will be forever grateful for each and every person that reached out to me.

Thank you all for being the wonderful people that you are.

forever,

Can


Life is change. Growth is optional. Choose wisely.

I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
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attempted R, it was all a lie

Divorced 8/5/14


Posts: 1339 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Connecticut
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Such an awesome message of hope and encouragement. Thank you, AN.

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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