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User Topic: There is always a cost
mrcpu
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Default  Posted: 5:39 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This isn't A related but I have to vent. 2012 my WW had an A with my xBFF. D-Day was Dec 22 2012. This tailspun me and I was "laid off" Nov 2013. I have landed a new job starting in January so things should be looking up.

It seems the cost of things being better is that not one, but BOTH my cars are in need of repairs. My one car is off the road entirely with up to $3k in work needed. My WW has been driving the other car to work while I'm off and now it is leaking fluid and will need work. I topped up the fluid that is slowly leaking and hope she makes it through tomorrow. There is no bus into the city on Saturdays. Monday she has to take the bus and I will take the car to the transmission shop and see what they have to say.

ARRRGGGG. Can't I just please get a break?!?!?!


D-Day 1: 22 Dec 2012
D-Day 2: 22 July 2014
Me: 40's WW: 40's Together 15 years
1st OM: ex-"Best Friend" of 30+ years
2nd OM: Local Realtek and serial cheater on his pregnant wife.

Posts: 223 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Toronto
steadfast1973
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Both of our cars need repairs, too. it stinks. Like we needed any more stress, right now. We were sitting pretty financially before dday... Now, it's piling up... And causing my husband more guilt...


Me- 40- BS Him- 36- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 3 mo. EA d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute 11/5/13 in R
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah."- Leonard Cohen

Posts: 2256 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Midwest
steadfast1973
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry... My ipad is really giving me some hate, today... Duplicate post...

[This message edited by steadfast1973 at 5:43 PM, December 27th (Friday)]


Me- 40- BS Him- 36- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 3 mo. EA d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute 11/5/13 in R
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah."- Leonard Cohen

Posts: 2256 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Midwest
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