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User Topic: New info...I guess this is TT?
cl131716
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Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From way back when we were dating. I had him make a timeline the other day. Apparently I missed a page. He told me in person that he had met the first women he cheated with at Target BEFORE we got together and she kissed him on the cheek. As a you know...."goodbye to the friendship thing" because he was interested in me. The thing is the circumstances don't match because he said it was after his route change which was actually two months into our relationship. I just reread the timeline and noticed he had wrote "peck on the lips" instead of cheek. Still lying. He's still at work so I haven't talked to him about it but I am giving him one last chance to come clean. I will let on that I caught him in a lie but nothing more. This just sucks.


Me BS 31
Him WS 34 Trying4change
Together 3 years, married for one
D-day: 07/23/13 cybersex with COW
D-day: 12/27/13 found out he met and kissed a "friend" in 2011
"A clear and innocent conscience fears nothing."

Posts: 935 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma
workindad
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Default  Posted: 10:31 PM, December 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Looks like TT to me.

Sorry for the spot you are in, but your gut is probably right in this case.

Good luck
WD


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tagalong
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Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What's TT? I don't see it in the list of abbreviations.


WS 7 years older
together over 20 years
DDay: December 15, 2013
WS exhibiting textbook mid-life crisis behaviors, maybe starting to show a little remorse...?
My self worth outweighs my willingness to continue to give in magnitudes greater than I

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painfulpast
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Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Trickle Truth - it's when the BS gets information piecemeal.

EX: WS says there was no sex. Two weeks later, there was some 'making out and groping' but no sex. Three weeks after that there was oral sex, but no 'sex sex'. One more week - they had sex once. Another 4 days - they had sex 7 times.

Trickle truth - very harmful to R


Don't water the plants - they're plastic

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