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Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 2:04 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Receive a Christmas card from XPOS in the mail today thanking me for the help with his mother and $20 to "have a few cups of coffee on him." The kicker? He signed it "Love, XPOS" What the hell is he thinking?? Because horse-faced twatbox dumped him we will rugsweep 20 years of infidelity and go back to the way we were? He has never ever apologized for any of his shit and he still thinks he is entitled to use the word "love?" He doesn't know the meaning of the fucking word, the miserable rat bastard! How dare he even use it with me! I found it highly insulting!! What a fucktwit!!!


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1205 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 2:06 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That would REALLY set me off. Vent away, sister!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9851 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
timeforchange
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Default  Posted: 2:06 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a total idiot he is!!!!!!


Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”


Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 2:11 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Still venting...RAT BASTARD! Self-centered, arrogant, fucked up miserable PIECE OF SHIT SORRY EXCUSE OF A HUMAN BEING!!


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1205 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 2:17 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Give the card to a women's shelter or a veteran's center. Let them benefit from this.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9851 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 2:46 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow. He is presumptuous. He thinks that sending you his "love" is okay? wanted? warranted? needed? What arsehole. Send it back with a note saying "No thanks, I've had your love, being alone is better."


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1781 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 4:12 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree with NG. Give it to someone who can benefit, a homeless person or a shelter etc.


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1363 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Thefly559
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Default  Posted: 5:32 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wayward entitlement !! Vent away ! He is a shithead!


"what does not kill you , makes you stronger"

Posts: 690 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: nyc
BrokenDaisy
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Default  Posted: 5:52 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Vent away! They are crazy delusional. I like Irishlass suggestion but would probably go with NatureGirl's suggestion if I were you.

Mine sent me a "thinking of you card" the week of our divorce. Idiots indeed!


Me BxW, him SA NPD WxH
1 wonderful toddler - sole legal custody to me and supervised visitation to xwh.
DDay 01/2012
10/2013 Finally Divorced!!

Posts: 266 | Registered: Oct 2012
justjim
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Default  Posted: 7:14 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Send the card on to the "horse faced twatbox".

Let her know that when she took him, she also took on his baggage.


Follow your BRAIN.
Your HEART is stupid as shit.

Posts: 294 | Registered: Oct 2013
sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After D-day, when he moved in with the OW, he used to tell me he loved me and sign his emails Love, XWH.

I finally told him to stop saying that. "Clearly you do not love me" I told him.

These assholes really do not know what love is.


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3426 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
ItHappened2Me2
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Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, that makes sense: $20 and his "love" should be enough to smooth over everything.

FTG
FTG
FTG
FTG

oh -- and FUCK THAT GUY!!!!!!!


BS - me (52); WS - him (52)
DD 15yo, DS 11 yo
Married 25 years (together 27+/-)
DDay #1 - March 18, 2011
DD #2 (after 3 + month TT and false R -- the affair had gone underground) - June 28,2011
DD3: June 19, 2013 - he started up again with the

Posts: 241 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Texas
BAB61
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Default  Posted: 9:00 AM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a lovely sentiment..NOT! Obviously his head is up his ass so far he's smelling roses! Just shred the card and give the money to a women's shelter or buy something for your kids with it. Don't tell him you received it and if he asks about it say something vague "I got so many cards I can't recall." Dickwad


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
badmedicine
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Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gross. Wayward entitled love is gross.

Alternate suggestion: Buy $20 worth of coffee and pour it *ON HIM*.


"The wishbone will never replace the backbone." -Will Henry
"This wasn't just plain terrible, this was fancy terrible. This was terrible with raisins in it." -Dorothy Parker

Posts: 208 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: United States
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WHAT A FUCKING ASSHOLE!!!!

Did I hear someone say FTG??

((((Phoenix))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2624 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
LoveHerStill
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Default  Posted: 4:59 PM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

To quote someone else, send it back with a note that says,
"There are no fish in this pond. This pond is empty. Fuck off!"

I swear some of these idiots have heads of solid bone!


Me BH-45
Her WW-44
Married-20yrs
Together-26yrs
D-Day 4/11/10
Divorced 9/13/2010
XWW Married OM 5/23/2011

There is hope. Once you truly commit to focusing on yourself and letting go, it comes back, and you will appreciate it like never before.


Posts: 497 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Seattle, WA
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is insane. What does he think you will do now? Thank him??!?? Ha!

HAHAHAHAHAHAA!

Good lord. Freaking idiot!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

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