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User Topic: DS14 reaction to stbx's xmas gift
dmari
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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DS14 has not spoken/seen to stbx since earlier this year. Stbx will text once in a while but that's it. Stbx leaves a gift bag in my garage for my kids on Christmas eve. I inform my son and ask if he would like to open it now or later. He tells me to leave it under the tree. Half an hour later, he tells me to shove it in the closet and says he doesn't need his gifts or money. He then looks at me and says "Do you want the money?" I laughed and said no thank you.

Stbx gave him two shirts and an envelope. Don't worry, I didn't open it but it was unwrapped in the bag. One shirt is for a video game that he despises (sorry COD fans) and the other shirt has this on the front "Yet despite the look on my face, you are still talking." Weird. Both shirts are too big.

I can't wait to see what he gives DS14 for his birthday which is next week. Last year it was lube to masturbate with. Lovely.


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2201 | Registered: Oct 2012
Gemini71
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Default  Posted: 1:34 PM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FTG.

And your story makes me realize I owe an apology to 14 year olds everywhere. I've been referring to STBXH as a 14yo stuck in a man's body. If your DS is typical of the age, he's waay more mature than a lot of these SOBs.

((hug)) to you and DS.


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1768 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
careerlady
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Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I can't wait to see what he gives DS14 for his birthday which is next week. Last year it was lube to masturbate with. Lovely.

Um, what a guy. Poor DS...


Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI

Posts: 940 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Northern California
LoveHerStill
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Default  Posted: 4:36 PM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My advice, pitch the shirts, have DS spend the money on something he likes.

This man is clearly out of touch with reality.


Me BH-45
Her WW-44
Married-20yrs
Together-26yrs
D-Day 4/11/10
Divorced 9/13/2010
XWW Married OM 5/23/2011

There is hope. Once you truly commit to focusing on yourself and letting go, it comes back, and you will appreciate it like never before.


Posts: 463 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Seattle, WA
Pass
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Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your STBX is just plain fucked up. Nothing else to add.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1933 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well at least your son has this figured out already.

Poor guy.

Your ex is a complete moron.


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3585 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
BAB61
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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, December 28th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Take your ds and the shirts and find some homeless people to give them to. Take the money and buy coffee and donuts to take along. If there are not homeless in your area, find a shelter or something along those lines to donate to.


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
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