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User Topic: Moving today
GotPlayed
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Renting the truck right now. Stopped by my house briefly to pick DD so she comes with me to pick the ikea furniture. WW looked pretty distraught. She's shitting bricks basically.

She asked me about the bills coming up on the first. I told her I'd pay this next month since we haven't gone through mediation yet but this was the last time, and that I have a couple of financial models for us depending on how much she keeps the kids based on the state of California website. But since we haven't gone through mediation, right now we can't spend on absolutely anything not absolutely necessary, and she should keep receipts.

I held her hands and told her - it's going to be ok. Probably being nicer than she deserves, but I want to make sure my kids are taken care of.

She's freaking out, the reality of it finally seems to be hitting. And I'm off to shop for furniture and get me set up with a new life, away from stress.

DD is beyond excited. And I am too. Send mojo my way today!!


Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
BS 42, WW 41. 18y married
DD: 11/5/13
DS10 Autism, DD8
OM: Reformed wife-beater ex-con
D filed 1/14/14 by WW (never warn them, they'll get ahead)
Married a powder keg

Posts: 568 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: California
HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sending mojo your way.

I didn't realise how bad the situation was until I got some distance. Time in my own space has been so very healing.


Me: Awesome - 35

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


Posts: 722 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
badmedicine
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Default  Posted: 1:21 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have fun shopping for WW-free furniture!!


"The wishbone will never replace the backbone." -Will Henry
"This wasn't just plain terrible, this was fancy terrible. This was terrible with raisins in it." -Dorothy Parker

Posts: 173 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: United States
Skan
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Default  Posted: 1:34 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You and your DD have FUN today! And stop for ice cream and the makings of floats for the two of you to toast your new place. Age appropriate for your DD and a recipe below for you!

Recipe for a Connie Allen, named in honor of the person who came up with it and shared it with me. Grab some Orange Sherbet and a 6-pack of Blue Moon. Scoop 2-3 big scoops of the Orange Sherbet into a beer mug and top with cold Blue Moon. Give it a couple of moments for the sherbet to melt into the beer a bit, and then start sipping and slurping. THE bomb!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4557 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
myowndystopia
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Make the most of your time with DD. it's great (for both of you!) that you are including her.


Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)

"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
Adele


Posts: 408 | Registered: Nov 2013
BAB61
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Default  Posted: 9:54 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How did it go? I'm glad you had some dd time today!


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
GotPlayed
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Default  Posted: 10:58 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Still going. Putting her bed together now, then put some sheets on so she can sleep. She's doing puppet shows in the meantime. I'm her audience. :)


Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
BS 42, WW 41. 18y married
DD: 11/5/13
DS10 Autism, DD8
OM: Reformed wife-beater ex-con
D filed 1/14/14 by WW (never warn them, they'll get ahead)
Married a powder keg

Posts: 568 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: California
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 11:19 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on the new place! I bet you sleep reeeeally good tonight!


divorced the Dooosh
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even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

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