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User Topic: Father & Daughter Discussion
Kuwaited
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Default  Posted: 5:38 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's these discussions that I live for……

I'm between a "B" and a "C".

So says my 19 year old daughter, rather forcefully, as she walks into my room. I’m thinking she’s talking about her grades at University of Georgia as I had been asking her what her grades were for the semester.

And so I say: Between a “B” and a “C” for what?

……thinking….oh I don’t know….Math, maybe.

No. Apparently she had been shopping at Victoria’s Secret and was on her way back to return a bra that was too tight. And this conversation ensues:

Her: I got fitted and the woman said I was between a “C” and a “D”. “D” !?! Seriously….I asked her if she was kidding.

Me: Um….yeah….I don’t think you’re a “D”.

Her: No kidding. Maybe not even a “C”.

Me: I….uh….don’t really know, Sweetie. But I’m told there may be better places to go to get fitted.

Her: I think I should just take my own measurements and go online to this place that will figure it out for you. I am not a “D”.

Me: Ok. But you might want to find a better place to go and get it done professionally.

Her: Maybe my boobs are two different sizes.

Me: Maybe. Like my feet!!

Her: You have two different sized feet? That’s weird.

……as IF a discussion about her boob size with her father is not weird ?????

As I hear the garage door going up I realize my son (16) is not in his room. He’s gone off to Victoria’s Secret with his sister. So I send him a text:

“You with your sister?”

Him: “Yes”

Me: “Bra shopping with your sister. It brings tears to my eyes. “

Him: “I just went for the drive. I’m staying in the car. “



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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

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Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awkward.

My now-teen-DS discusses the surprises he's getting from his changing body. Glad he feels comfortable doing it but

FWIW- size largely depends on the bra manufacturer. Or at the least from my research VS tends to be off from the sizes of other manufacturers.


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Waiting4Daylite
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You sir are one AWESOME dad!

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 6:06 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


And OMG time sure has passed. 19?


BTW Go Cats!


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jjct
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Default  Posted: 6:19 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Go CATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Me: “Bra shopping with your sister. It brings tears to my eyes. “

I'm d y i n

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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Too funny... I used to have similar conversations with my step-father.

Meanwhile... if you have a Dillard's nearby I highly recommend their fitting department...


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Default  Posted: 7:14 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh; oh my...


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Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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booger bear
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Funny  Posted: 11:11 PM, December 29th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well and it depends on what she wants the bra for. Everyday use, working out, going out ect ... can make a difference on the bra size ....

It could have been worse ... keep that in mind


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, December 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Send her to Macy's, and remind her that the cup size doesn't necessarily equate to the breast mass - As the ribcage measurement goes down, the cup size goes up for the same mass - so a 36C = 34D in breast tissue.

For real though, Macy's. Way better lingerie department than VS.


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Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, December 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As a woman with an inbetween size - finding a bra that fits is like finding the holy grail.

I have literally tried every make/model of bra's i can find, and Maidenform has been the best.

They have a new 'body' line out that is amazing and they are super affordable and look really cute.

Just a thought. Kohl's for the win!


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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 9:41 AM, December 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would have 'bailed' on that conversation waaay earlier ... just saying

TR


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Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, December 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I haven't had great luck at the department stores here. But the bra store that did a great fitting also utilized a "hands on" approach that I found a bit disconcerting! Might be a bit much for a 19 year old!

Frankly I just send dd into the dressing room with a handful of bras and let her figure it out!


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Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hilarious!


Good to see you again!


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dying here. That is too cute!!!
My dd 16 has conversations with me that I wish she just wouldn't. I always find myself thinking "I am so glad you are so open with me, now please stop talking to me about this."



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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I haven't had great luck at the department stores here. But the bra store that did a great fitting also utilized a "hands on" approach that I found a bit disconcerting! Might be a bit much for a 19 year old!

Is that job still open?? Inquiring minds ...


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ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 3:29 PM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Her: Maybe my boobs are two different sizes.

Me: Maybe. Like my feet!!

Yeah, just like that


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 3:34 PM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wonder how many convos like this I've had with my dad....or my mom lol. I remember one she had with my brother where he was 19 and needed to show her something in a uhhhh delicate area he was worried about lol.

Depending where you are and this may be awkward to tell her try myintimacy.com. They are amazing and have a few locations.


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Kuwaited
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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, January 1st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am grateful that she feels she can talk to me about such things. But then…she always has been able to open up to me on so many things and for that I feel greatly honored, actually.

Other than recognizing that she is not a “D”…as I understand that size to be, I am woefully deficient in knowing anything about boob size. I know there are large ones…there are small ones….and all sizes in between. And setting aside, for the moment, that this started out about my daughter’s – they all are good. Really, they are.

I had no idea about VS “sizing up” to appeal to a woman’s ego. That just seems perfectly silly to me. I may pass that on to my daughter and direct her to some of the places mentioned here – well other than the one Sadcat mentioned (and at which TR seeks employment).


About this……

BTW Go Cats!

Go CATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

At first I’m thinking: “Really…..didn’t they win like…what…ONE game this season??”. And then I realize you’re not talking about football but rather basketball. It’s early. Let’s see how it goes. Having taken one class at the U of L campus (Physics) ….I’m afraid I have to err on their side. Sorry. GAWD!!!! Growing up in the “Basketball Belt” I heard more about UK, U of L and IU basketball than I care to think about.


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