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User Topic: Arrgh ... worst movie ever.
Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 5:18 AM, December 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, XH works in movies. Been having a rough, triggery week. Just got home from work, flip on tube. Movie that's on (last channel that was on before I left) is the one where XH started A w/slunty OW. What a kick in the fucking ovaries.

I watched 5 minutes of it, thinking, great job XH building that set. Followed by: OW did a decent job dressing it. Shoot me in the frigging face. I hate my fucking life right now.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 746 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
Thefly559
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Default  Posted: 6:36 AM, December 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No tv for you tonight. I am sorry. Stay strong


"what does not kill you , makes you stronger"

Posts: 646 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: nyc
SBB
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Default  Posted: 7:23 AM, December 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well. That's the first time an accountants wife ever thought she was lucky to have married an accountant.

Geez. I thought realising how prevalent and pedestrian affairs are in movies I used to love but now can't watch was hard.

That is so shit.

Its the iPod that tried to kill me. I couldn't listen to the radio either. I had my iPod set to random and I swear 5 songs in a row started playing that were massive triggers (one was his hobby band's album, another was the bloody wedding song!). Each time I punched the next button I cursed - by the 5th song I was crying and cackling hysterically whilst cursing the universe. This has happened with the radio more times than I can count.

In that laughter I saw the funny side of where I was at. I knew at that moment that I'd be OK. And I am. You will be too.

((Vulcanised)

[This message edited by SBB at 7:26 AM, December 30th (Monday)]


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 9:59 AM, December 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh that is awful!! I have been cursed by music lately. I don't know if its the holidays or what, but every damn song makes me cry it seems!!

I am sorry you were triggered. That feeling is horrible.


divorced the Dooosh
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even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3580 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, December 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just hate stuff like that. At first I had to avoid pretty much all music and movies. SBB is so right- affairs are casually thrown about in so many movies and tv shows! It's just sad.

Sorry you got that slap in the face today. I know how much it hurts.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin


Posts: 810 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, December 30th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((vulcanized))) I'm so sorry. That's a hell of a trigger.


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
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