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User Topic: New Year Resolutions for 2014
HUFI-PUFI
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Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As we head into New Years Day, thousands of us will take this opportunity to establish goals for ourselves to pursue during the year. Some of them may be harder than others to accomplish but for a lot of us, the desire and intent is there, even if the willpower or skills are lacking.

I want to find a new job.
I want to do a week long kayaking trip down a river.
I want to hold hands with LF more often.

So, what are your resolutions?

[This message edited by HUFI-PUFI at 8:24 AM, December 31st (Tuesday)]


Donít listen to your head, itís easily confused. Donít listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

Posts: 3226 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Azilda, Northern Ontario
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My Resolutions:

- To not give in every time Teddy and Kyle demand a cookie.

- To enter in all receipts daily...not at the end of the week when I have a pile of them.

- To get more exercise because I know how good it makes me feel

- To continue watching Game of Thrones with MH because he loves it so much

- And to take my vitamins every day.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 8:38 AM, December 31st (Tuesday)]


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 196475 | Registered: May 2002
unfound
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Default  Posted: 8:58 AM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

To not give in every time Teddy and Kyle demand a cookie.

yeahhhh , let me know how that works out for you DS .


I'd like to do some thinning out of things (closets, drawers, me) and maintain a more simple, mentally and environmentally, "space".

Continue the organization processes I've already started.


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

Posts: 14817 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
PurpleBirch
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My resolutions are to:

-Save some money (for riding camp for my oldest this summer, a short trip for the three of us, and some emergency funds)
-Play my ukulele more often (at least 2-3 times a week).
-Improve my diet (eat breakfast at home -not in the car or after I get to work; more water, less caffeine; more fruits and veggies).


Me: BS (32)
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.

DS (6), DS (18 months)

Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".

Status: Done like dinner


Posts: 277 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The frozen North, eh?
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Unfound...

I will most likely fail by Jan 2nd with that resolution


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 196475 | Registered: May 2002
Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, January 1st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine this year is to reconnect. 2013 was a sad year. Lost several people way too young, a good friend lost her children... Life is short.

So I have begun reconnecting. Some successes, some failures, but I will continue to reach out to those who are or once were important to me.


Indian wisdom says our lives are rivers. We are born somewhere small and quiet and we move toward a place we cannot see, but only imagine. From Tending Roses

Posts: 6005 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, January 1st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My 2014 Resolutions... These are for 2014 yes??

- Exercise a lot more than last year... which will be more than NEVER!

- Spend less time fussing at my family and just enjoy them (even with all their goofiness and quirks)

- Spend as much time as possible with my DS... he's growing up too darn fast!

- And to make better Resolutions!


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24346 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, January 1st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've run out of time for my 2013 New Year Resolutions.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; theyíll scratch you up time and time again but in the end youíre polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 51507 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, January 1st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh yeah change the title from 2013 now.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; theyíll scratch you up time and time again but in the end youíre polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 51507 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
sadcat
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Default  Posted: 12:07 PM, January 1st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I resolve to learn how to walk in the incredibly awesome yet way high heels I bought myself for my birthday.

Right now I can take tiny baby steps (approximately 4) before needing to sit down.

The shoes will not defeat me!!! I will prevail!

The goal is to be able to wear them with out having to take tiny steps or looking like I have bound my feet in the ancient Chinese tradition.


I need not suffer in silence while I can still moan, whimper and complain.

If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.


Posts: 13217 | Registered: Oct 2005 | From: GA
ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, January 1st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have GOT to move south. I'm just so miserable with all this cold (and it's about to get way colder and that's all I can think about). Every winter I wail about moving south. I admit that the one time the ex and I actually did it, we vastly overshot by moving to Puerto Rico. So... not quite *that* south.

Looking increasingly seriously at Edenton, NC. Wish I could pack up my IC and my dog's day care friends (human and dog) and take them with me

Would also love to make 2014 the year I turn my soaping hobby into an actual income-producing business, even if the income is very small to start.


Me: BW (54)
Him: WH (61)
7/14/11 - Divorced

Posts: 1804 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: another world
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, January 1st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

- Start exercising (again)

- Lose a few more pounds

[This message edited by SI Staff at 12:45 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)]


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AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, January 1st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gain 30 lbs.


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2527 | Registered: Aug 2012
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 4:13 PM, January 1st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

==Exercise more.
==Go back to making most meals at home instead of eating out so often.
==take an advanced language class, either French or German
==continue to either paint or learn something about painting every single day
==Keep on using my happiness jar
==Lose the pounds I packed on in the last 2 years!


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7119 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 10:07 PM, January 1st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Exercise more often
Cultivate healthy work habits (because I'm going back to work- from home- after years of being a SAHM)
Get healthier, overall
Be nicer and less judgmental (I tell ya'. I put the mental in judgmental! )


Posts: 11399 | Registered: Mar 2008
ninebark
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Default  Posted: 6:27 AM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Every year I was making foolish weight and diet resolutions that never worked out. So last year I started making challenging yet attainable resolutions.

For this year I made a list of 50 of the best Nonfiction books ever written and I am going to read them. I started this about a month ago (I knew this would take more than a year) so I just finished book five.

Last year I made a resolution to run five 5K races. I ended up running 6. It was a good resolution year..lol.


BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
D-day 06/21/09
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.

Posts: 630 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Canada
TattoodChinaDoll
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Default  Posted: 7:57 AM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1) Use my Chinese Rosetta Stone everyday so I can finally hold a conversation. I can understand what my relatives are saying but I can barely speak it. But I would also be giving away my secret that I know exactly what they are talking about and they think I don't.

2) Learn how to crochet for real. I kinda know how but I really just make stuff up as I go along.

I would say lose weight but I'm so sick and tired of dieting and exercising from this past year that I'd rather resolve to eat more tasty things.


Me (BW): 32
WH: 33 TimeToManUp
Married: 10 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 8, 5, 2, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011

I'm getting out of here.


Posts: 1706 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As many here and other IRL have said loose weight. I did this last year, and took off 20 pounds over the year, My goal is to loose another 20, and also begin exercising again.

I also want to declutter my home and get it organized. This may require my H going into therapy since he borders on being a hoarder. But I can't have his stuff take over my life. It's in every room of the house. Time to start throwing away. I just hope I don't end up in D/S because of it.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 7799 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Morhurt
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I resolve to be nicer to myself. I tend to be pretty judgy of Morhurt and I don't think it's healthy. I also resolve to spend more time with friends. Having so many kids allowed me to forget about myself and focus on them but I need to reconnect. I'm excited to try that one out!

Of course I'd like to say diet and exercise but really, I need to be easy on myself this year (see above) so I'm not going to.


Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 883 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
EvenKeel
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Default  Posted: 1:38 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

To do Kegel exercises every day.

Check back in December....I might be able to do some impressive tricks by then


Eyes are useless if the mind is blind.


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