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User Topic: H1N1 flu is back - get vaccinated
Pippy
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Default  Posted: 11:19 PM, December 31st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A darling beautiful 21 year old girl with everything to live for has died with pneumonia from H1N1. A week before she made a video of playing happily with her dog.

H1N1 is back with a vengeance. Please get your flu shot and wash your hands frequently.


I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.


Posts: 9588 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: East of the Rockies
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Pippy))))

A loss like that leaves me without words that can comfort. I am so so sorry.

Yes it can and will steal lives quickly.

May her video provide you with peace and warm memories.

(((and strength)))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8738 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just got over having the H1N1 flu. I thought I was going to die.

I've never had a flu shot before in my life and I've never had the flu before in my life but I will probably start getting the flu shot from here on out.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Shots every year after going through it years ago!


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 21318 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 3:12 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What TR said.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7305 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Helpful hint - the older you get the more you get whammed by it


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 21318 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
persevere
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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I planned to get the shot today, but then a co-worker scared me out of it. I'm thinking I should still do it even though I usually don't. Anyone???


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4618 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:43 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What scared you out of it, persevere?

I get one every year without fail.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is H1N1 in the flu shot you normally get? Or do we have to ask for it in addition to the regular flu shot we normally get? I got the normal flu shot a week ago. No one mentioned H1N1.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9851 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:13 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From the CDC:

Three kinds of influenza viruses commonly circulate among people today: Influenza A (H1N1) viruses, influenza A (H3N2) viruses, and influenza B viruses. Each year, these viruses are used to produce seasonal influenza vaccine.

The 2013-2014 trivalent influenza vaccine is made from the following three viruses:

an A/California/7/2009 (H1N1)pdm09-like virus;
an A(H3N2) virus antigenically like the cell-propagated prototype virus A/Victoria/361/2011;
a B/Massachusetts/2/2012-like virus.

So yes, an H1N1 strain is included in the vaccine.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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kickboxer
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Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I lost a friend to H1N1 in 2009.

She was an otherwise healthy 38 year old vibrant mother of two who randomly fell ill one day and was dead within 2 weeks.

I've never missed a shot since.


BW - 42 (Me)
WH - 39 (2 ONS, 6m EA)
Married 13 years, 3 children
DD: 7/13/13
Status: Rugsweeping, I guess.

Posts: 248 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Somewhere Out There
myowndystopia
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Default  Posted: 11:08 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Had my flu shot. The one perk I get from my employer every year! I had H1N1 last time it came through (even with flu shot but I think the H1N1was an add on later) so since I've had that strain already would I have some immunities to it?


Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)

"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
Adele


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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 11:10 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I took care of a 42 year old lady last week who died two days after Christmas. 48 hours before she was fine. I did everything I could do. Her children barely made it up to the hospital in time. It was awful. Please get vaccinated.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2256 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:15 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the link, NIK. My momentary panic has subsided. DD and I got our shots in Oct. (Crazz will be heading to the pharmacy next week.)


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17889 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 11:53 PM, January 2nd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got a shot in Oct thanks to my employer. I asked DD if she wanted one because they are so easy to get now (most pharmacies offer them for $10-$20). She said no (she did not yet another shot) and I did not force it. I wish I had now.

persevere, the only side effect I had was some itching and slight soreness at the injection site for about a day. Nothing else. In fact a tetanus shot is waaay worse! If you are not allergic to eggs and have never had an adverse reaction before to a vaccine then you should be fine and not have any significant side effects. If you have had a bad reaction to any shot, then consult with your DR before getting it


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

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persevere
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Default  Posted: 7:30 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My coworker is a bit of a conspiracy theorist, she thinks there are aspects of the vaccination that can cause other issues on the future. I'm going to get it today. thanks.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4618 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
amitheow
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Default  Posted: 8:05 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They are saying it's killed several people in Houston. I did get my flu shot and was paranoid but ... I think the shot is going to protect me.

It's scary folks!


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My screen name is: Am I The Ow? - Not Ami the OW.

Because in my situation I didn't know if I was the OW at first or if I was being cheated on. Found I was being cheated on.


Posts: 5085 | Registered: Jun 2004 | From: Texas
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 8:27 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In Canada, we get our flu shots FREE in many neighbourhood pharmacies/drugstores. We don't even need to get ourselves to the (free) doctor's office. So we have no excuse, other than people being afraid of side effects.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7305 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 8:28 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

she thinks there are aspects of the vaccination that can cause other issues on the future.

Not getting it can cause quite severe issues, too--like..........death.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7305 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
amitheow
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Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've nver had an issue with the shot. It gets red and itchy for a few hours then nothing.

My H got one a few years and came down with the flu almost immediately and it was BAD. but they tell you when you get your shot that you can't have a fever, you have to be in good health. So I think he was exposed before he got the shot and being sick/getting shot made him REALLY sick.

He is convinced the shot did it and won't get another one. I tried to tell him it's not a live virus in the shot, only in the nose mist but he's not buying it. So he never gets a shot.

Worrisome.


Old Timer, Just here to help
My screen name is: Am I The Ow? - Not Ami the OW.

Because in my situation I didn't know if I was the OW at first or if I was being cheated on. Found I was being cheated on.


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