I do not GET why she hasn't taken you up on the talk and is instead stalking you via social media
I immediately texted the other coworker and apologized, explaining the mix-up and told him to have his wife call me if she had any questions.
Based on ^^^^^, we all know there is the possibility that she never rec'd the message from her H. That is...if he has something to hide.
Again, I would accept the request.
If her H is cheating, clearly it isn't on you. Is he's cheated in the past, she might just want reassurance. You fan help help that. If you send one final message, then NC, that would be great. He may have been a former WS. She may just need reassurance.
After a final message, shut.it.down. don't even talk to this guy unless it's work related. As a BS who's husband who had affairs with employees, I would have wanted some sort of respond. No response, to me, would have "looked" like an admission of guilt.
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Thanks for all of your advice, all.