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Aubrie
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Sad  Posted: 9:32 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you could whisper a prayer for my sister I would appreciate it.

She's in the process of losing her third baby in a year.

Life is so unfair.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Keeping your sister in prayer.


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We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 9:45 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry, your sister is in my prayers. Has she considered testing to see why this is happening? I've lost 4 babies and while testing didn't lead to any concrete answers, it revealed some possibilities. Please let your sister know that it's ok to grieve and breathe, this child is a very real part of her.


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

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Gottagetthrough
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Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please let your sister know that it's ok to grieve and breathe, this child is a very real part of her.

so true.

Praying for your sister. I am so very sorry.


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cass
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Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Aubrie's sister and angel baby))))


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 9:53 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry.....


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 10:17 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so angry.

Why her? Why did she have to inherit the fertility issues? Times like this I feel incredible guilt over the fact QS can just look at me and I get pregnant. That I didn't have complications carrying my babies. That we're "done" and he's been snipped. Guilt because I've always been held over her head. She feels she'll never be "as good" as me. (Thank you FOO)

And Mother, because of her lousy choices, is not a part of this process. My sister doesn't feel exactly safe or stable enough to call and "chat" with her about it all. So it's just me and my sister, working thru this together.

Oh Little Sister, my heart bleeds for you.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


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Crescita
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Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((sister, husband, and angel baby)))))

I'm so sorry, Aubrie.


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- Carlos Santana


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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 10:33 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So very sad.

(((Aubrie & Sis)))

Sending prayers.


AJ's MOM


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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm very sorry for your sister's loss Aubrie. I will keep her in my prayers.

I know what you mean. I had 5 kids without any trouble whatsoever but my one brother had to use IVF to get his beautiful daughters and my other brother's wife couldn't even get pregnant with IVF - 3 failed pregnancies. It just doesn't make sense and is not fair at all.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Aubrie, Aubrie's sister, and family)))

I am so sorry. Sending hugs and prayers.


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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 12:25 PM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers sent...I'm so sorry for your sister, Aubrie.

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Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 12:33 PM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry. Prayers being said.


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending strength and positive thoughts to you both during this difficult time.


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Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 1:42 PM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you everyone.

We're in the waiting stage. She's passing fluid but that's the extent of it. She can't get in with her doctor till Tuesday.

*sigh*


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


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booger bear
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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I am fiercely independent and I won’t apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

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stroppy_wanadoo
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Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers for your sister and for you, Aubrie.

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Teach8
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Default  Posted: 2:21 PM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Aubrie's sister and family))). Sending strength and prayers. I'm so very sorry. I do know the pain she is feeling.


Me: BW. Him: WH. Dday: 4/26/12. TT until 8/15/12 LTA 7 years. Trying to R

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