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User Topic: Any midwest g2g coming up?
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Boy it's been awhile since we had one in KY. Mar 2010 was the last one. It would be nice not to travel too far for a g2g for once.


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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

.......last time I checked, KY wasn't considered a part of the Midwest. Just sayin'.


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Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm watching this thread to see where the final location ends up being! Whether or not I can attend depends on when and where.


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JessicaFL127
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Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Any consensus?


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Posts: 1244 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Missouri
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Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We've got a bunch of people down for Chicago once it warms up, I think.


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DixieD
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Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We loved Chicago and would jump at the chance to go back there.

Boy it's been awhile since we had one in KY. Mar 2010 was the last one. It would be nice not to travel too far for a g2g for once.

You better get working on that.


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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm very very new here. As in all around and to this si area. Lol. I'd love to g2g if in the Chicago area. I'm a bit south but I love the area. Of course whether I can attend will depend on my status. WH pitches a fit if he has to "deal with kids" when I go out of town. If we are D by then he won't care. Id find care for them. After may is best for me bc I am a teacher. I always plan big things for after school.


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Default  Posted: 1:27 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm from the Chicagoland area. I've got family still there I haven't seen in a long time.
Depending on finances, and school breaks, I'm down for a G2G in Chicago later in the year.
I'll keep an eye on this post to see where and when.


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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpitty Bump Bump


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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

g2gs really need warmish weather. I hope we can have one in this area in 2014. Just sayin'....


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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, February 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping cause I'm bummin', here....

Chicago seems to be the consensus, so far. But if there's no one there to plan it.......

Let's hear some other ideas, folks! I think we could all use something to look forward to after this miserable winter!


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scarednbroken
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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, February 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Agreed! I'm hoping I'll be celebrating by then!


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Frustrated  Posted: 10:33 PM, February 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, I planned the St. Louis one, but I was a little limited because I couldn't take off work for most of it. I felt bad about that but I think it turned out ok. I grew up in StL so it was easier for me. I can try and help with Chicago, I have a sister in nursing school there so she can help logistically, but I don't know much about it myself. A local may be better to take point.


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mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


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Default  Posted: 10:41 PM, February 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sissoon and I both live pretty close to Chicago, we've talked a little about it. I think space is a little bit of an issue for us, as far as having people over...but if we're just meeting up IN the city at some agreed upon place, I'm more than happy to help with logistics or coordination.


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Default  Posted: 10:44 PM, February 7th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That would be cool, FP. If I can help with anything, please let me know.


BW,32
divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


Posts: 1244 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Missouri
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Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, I think it's just a matter of figuring out what we'd all like to do. I've never attended one of these things. I mean, it's Chicago; we're certainly not going to be hurting for options (especially in the summer if we wait that long), but it comes down to which weekend, what kind of stuff is going on, so on and so forth. I live about 35 minutes north of O'Hare and 45 minutes north of the city, assuming zero traffic. Sissoon's a little closer, but neither of us has a ton of space in which to 'host' as a base of sorts for venturing out. Or does everyone just kind of make their own plans for the time they're in town, and we all coordinate some established 'events' (dinner, or dancing, or whatever) wherein we all meet and mingle?

I am so lost. But I really want to do this!

I'll put this out there for everyone who's interested: is there a 'good' or 'best' month for everyone? Maybe that'll make it a tad easier to (loosely) plan some stuff....

[This message edited by FacePunched at 9:18 PM, February 8th (Saturday)]


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Default  Posted: 10:18 PM, February 8th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've got an idea for Saturday night, but I can't check it out until Tuesday night, so I'll report Wednesday.


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Posts: 9918 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
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Default  Posted: 7:05 AM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, if it helps, I made dinner reservations for Friday night (one thing I was able to attend), planned a picnic lunch at the Arch grounds and reserved a piano bar for Saturday night. It gave visitors Saturday afternoon to explore but still had established events as well. I coordinated a hotel and got a group rate with them. I met the group Sunday at the hotel for brunch before they all left town. I think it worked out ok but I missed most of the weekend.


BW,32
divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


Posts: 1244 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Missouri
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Default  Posted: 7:56 AM, February 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Watching this thread big time to see where it goes! Sounds like sooo much fun!


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Married 8 years-No kids together
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Default  Posted: 2:17 PM, February 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Voting Yes for IN Chicago.


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