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User Topic: My gig
Pass
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Default  Posted: 6:18 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So it finally happened today: My gig.

I received a lot of really good feedback from individual audience members, everybody laughed when they should, and a few of my new music-y friends showed up to watch. It was very cool. My boys were there and took some video on their phones. I probably won't have that until next week.

I felt mostly confident on stage. I had prepared a little stage patter for between songs (the hardest part, in my opinion), and it didn't feel awkward either.

It was a good day!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1795 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
careerlady
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Default  Posted: 6:21 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! Sounds like it was a success! One of many to come I'm sure! Congrats!


Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI

Posts: 937 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Northern California
PurpleBirch
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Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Isn't it satisfying when people laugh when you want them to? I gave a speech at my brother's wedding, and though I consider myself to be mildly funny, I was surprised when they laughed as much as they did. I even stopped in the middle of my speech and said "I'm so glad you're laughing because *he's* the funny one".

So glad it went well :)


Me: BS (32)
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.

DS (6), DS (18 months)

Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".

Status: Done like dinner


Posts: 277 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The frozen North, eh?
imwideawake
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Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had all the confidence in the world that it was going to be a good day. Congrats


Together 17 years.
Married 15
Me: BW, now 44
Him WH
dday 9/08
3 daughters, now 19, 17, & 15
Divorced 12/04/12

Posts: 883 | Registered: Mar 2009
HurtsButImOK
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Cool  Posted: 7:16 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!

Look at you go pass, just getting more awesome every day.

Well done


Me: Awesome - 35

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


Posts: 722 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
Pass
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Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Look at you go pass, just getting more awesome every day.

Thanks, y'all. The Princess will spend the rest of her life searching for second prize. She treated first prize like shit!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1795 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
PhoenixRising88
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Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

awesome news pass!!! So glad to hear it.


Me: BS (43)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(50)
D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/2013.

Divorce final 2/10/14.

Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.


Posts: 426 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: North Texas
myowndystopia
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Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome job pass!


Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)

"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
Adele


Posts: 408 | Registered: Nov 2013
torn2bits
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Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know that has got to feel good! Kudos to you and celebrate the success!


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
BAB61
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Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay for you and so, so glad your kids were there and that they took vid!!


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Such an awesome post. Please let us know when we can YouTube your videos
Trust me, we are all already big fans


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1699 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
pregnantandsad
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Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

awesome!


M 7 years, together for 12
2 kids- DD4 and a newborn
D-Day 7/2013 he didn't want R and moved in with OW
Filing for D

Posts: 155 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: California
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17280 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
ruby44
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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations, sounds like a fun night. I wish there were places like that around my house, not that I sing or play but I love to listen to music. Especially since I have ever other weekend open.
Please do post a video we would all love to see it.


Me BW 52, Him WH 48
Married 13 years,
2 DDs (12 and 10)
D-Day Confirmed 10/24/13 suspected before that but did not want to believe it.
WH filed for D 11/12/13
2/8/14 WH asked if he could come home.
Lies!

Posts: 276 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Midwest
Pass
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Default  Posted: 9:09 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, everyone. I will definitely post the video once I have it.

Ruby, there probably are places like that near you. Look around for the artsy, independent coffee houses in your city. They probably have some folkies playing there on a somewhat regular basis.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1795 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2580 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, y'all. The Princess will spend the rest of her life searching for second prize. She treated first prize like shit!

I LOVE this perspective. And....you are dead on!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2210 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 3706 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
tesla
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Default  Posted: 10:44 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Congrats Pass! Sounds like a great time!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4605 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 11:05 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I KNEW you were totally going to kill it!!!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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