These are the same people who cut me out of their lives immediately on D-day. They are only friends with me now because XH wanted to R. Don't get me wrong (and if any of them are reading, don't misunderstand): to a certain extent I believe that they care about me for me...but to a larger extent, honestly, I know that if XH and I had never begun R they would never have spoken another word to me and would have been none the worse for it.
So if they all had such a (deservedly and understandably) strong reaction 4 years ago, how come now they just want to pretend it never existed?
Married 2.5 years
No longer together
"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."
Me: fBH 46
Her: exWW 42
DDay: Nov 1, 2012
Divorced: September 17, 2013