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User Topic: Asked BH a Q
sinnomore
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Content  Posted: 9:34 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This am I asked bh a question which was this:

Do you consider us still in the process of reconciling or do you consider us reconciled?

He said reconciled! He also said maybe it was still in process, but felt that it was actually reconciled even though he still has "moments".

I thanked him and realized I had tears of joy in my eyes. I know we are still working on us, and am grateful for his willingness to work it out with me.

Happy New Year!


Me - WW-40's
Him - BS-40's
Married 20 years, together 24

Posts: 28 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: USA
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for sharing this positive news.


xBH
D final 8/2012

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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 9:41 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 6314 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
helplessme
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Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, January 5th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sinnomore,

Happy for you!

How long has it been for you from DDay?


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sinnomore
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Content  Posted: 12:06 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Helplessme,

Thank you:)

Dday was just about 3.5 years ago. It's been a long road, and we both know there may be some challenges ahead however; we are still here together with our family intact.


Me - WW-40's
Him - BS-40's
Married 20 years, together 24

Posts: 28 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: USA
helplessme
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Default  Posted: 12:19 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is a great encouragement sinnomore! Gives hope to all of us here


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Prayingforhope
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Default  Posted: 4:13 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Big time hope booster. Thanks for sharing...

Also continues to reinforce my need for patience...this is not about days or months, it's about months and years. (I have to remind myself daily of this, since I'm a newbie to destroying my family and wife).


WH 41
BS 40
D-Day Oct 28th, 2013
Together 18 years
Three amazing boys 12, 9 & 6
Praying for hope daily

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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:14 AM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's awesome !


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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Skan
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Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so happy for the two of you.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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RegretfulHusband
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Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for sharing this sinnomore.

It gives me hope for myself.


Me: FWH, 34
Her: BS, 33
Married: 6 years
Together: 10+ years
Kids: 2 Boys under 5

DDay1: 7+ years ago
DDay2: 1.5 years ago

"The truth shall set you free, but first it will make you miserable."


Posts: 142 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: United States
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, January 6th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So pleased for you both.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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