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User Topic: Well, there was more. Breaking point: am I in shock?
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Thessalian)))) Sending you continued strength.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25776 | Registered: Aug 2011
DixieD
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Default  Posted: 11:27 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great steps Thessalian. It's mind-blowing when you start to see everything differently.

I think one of the things that CoD or 'fixers' don't see is that our need to help the addict not fail also impedes their chances for success. When we take on their responsibilities, they lose out on that opportunity to learn responsibility.

I've learned I've got more than enough of my own stuff to deal with to keep taking on other people's stuff. I just have to keep redirecting my focus back on my own stuff when my eyes start to wander into someone else's backyard.

Good luck on your journey.


Growing forward

Posts: 1767 | Registered: Sep 2011
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 11:52 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My hands are off this process, from now on, whether we stay together or not. Hands. Are. Off. I am fixing my own shit, and my own life.

Thank you, everyone.

Halle-freakin-lujah!

It's the only way.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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