FYI…My DD was 5 years 2 months 6 days ago. I have never received an admission from her doing anything wrong. Oh, there was that one time kiss at their hotel after a night of drinking, but she told him to stop because she didn’t want to hurt me.
Below is the first piece of evidence I found. It is a note that WW left in her car.
You tell what you think.
“I would like to apologize for acting the way I did. I realize perceptions are what they are and it’s important not to give the impression of inappropriate activity. I keep thinking that maybe it’s best not to travel with you, then I get selfish and don’t want anyone else “Taking Care” of you. I think my feelings for you are much deeper than what/how you feel about me on a personal level. I feel I have become overly attached in possibly an unhealthy way. I get the feeling that I cramp your space when we travel and I don’t intend for that to happen. Part of me is thinking that continuing to work for you may not be best for either of us. I know I am very possessive and I don’t want to share you and I also know there are tons of people that want time with you. I also know that some (maybe more) of those people (Women) are than “Just Friends”. It kills me to think that you are/maybe intimate with some of them. I can handle being the “OTHER” woman, but having a hard time being one of many other women. I can only imagine how K feels (His Wife) if she even has a clue. I don’t know if I am infatuated with you or there is an element of love in the mix. It could be the idea of you, I don’t know. I do know just the thought of you gives me butterflies. I get excited about seeing you and hate when the weekend comes around knowing I won’t see you. I keep trying to figure things out. What’s wrong with me and why I act like a kid around you. HELP!!!!!!!!”
You asked…..what was WW reaction when I confronted her??? She went fucking crazy, said I had no right to read that note, that I didn’t have a fucking clue what it was about, it was just a fantasy of hers. Then she went into major Lie, Deny, and Blameshift mode.
This is just the tip of the iceberg of what I found to include her journal, 1000s of text messages’ and a hotel receipt (1 Block from her work and only stayed 3 hours). BTW… that explanation was a classic “I didn’t want to bring anymore stress into the house with you and the kids and I needed a place to think” WTF!!!
You said…” I know that I was really more concerned about my own protection.” This is so true. You see my WW was more concerned about THIER protection because her AP was General Officer in the US Army and they both would have lost their jobs along with their families. She will take this lie to her grave.
So here we are today. She is fully reconciled because I no longer bring it up. As for myself, I am just going through the motions. Your BS world has been torn apart, but at least she knows the truth. Me, I am stuck in limbo land.