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Topic: It's A Boy

Skan
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Member # 35812

Posted: 4:20 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014

I'm so very sorry. (((hugs)))

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

Posts: 4085 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California

whattheh
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Member # 40032

Posted: 4:21 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014

So very sorry....

BW- mid 50's (me)
fWH-late 50's
M 33 T 35
DD-Early 2013 cheated after 32 years of M
In R but I have PTSD...

Posts: 403 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA

Offhispedestal
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Member # 32528

Posted: 6:06 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014

The one thing that MOW's H ever told me that is soooo true was " don't try to understand why or how they could do this to you, you will go crazy looming for something that doesn't exist"

I didn't get it. I nearly went insane for months. I still dont get it till this day.
But I now understand what he meant. I'm so sorry for for the pain all this is causing you. 😣

ME-43
WH-45
Married 23

‎
2Beautiful daughters
DD 6/26/10 (he broke down & confessed)
DD#2 3/14/11 H in OW's car
TT 7/1/11 (NC broken, through emails)

In R

Posts: 623 | Registered: Jun 2011

LiedtoLucy
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Member # 39246

Posted: 6:39 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014

(((((((plainpain))))))).

We are pretty much in the same situation right now. My H's potential OC was born on January 2nd. It is a boy, also.

I feel your pain. It hurts worse than anything I have ever experienced. How is your H doing? Mine has emotionally shut down. He tried to pretend like it wasn't real until he got word that the baby was born. I will have to say that he does actually have more remorse now. It is reality and it sucks.

I am so sorry. I wouldn't wish this on anyone, well except for OW.

LTL

Me: BS
Him: WH
OW=UW or Ugly Whore- cow of WH
UW claims to be pregnant w/ WH baby and I HATE her for it.
DDay: 4/23/13
Together: 14 years
Married: 10 years
Kids: 3 beautiful boys. Ages: 8, 4, & 19 months
Trying to R-Some days are

Posts: 104 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Southeastern U.S.

GingerAle
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Member # 33822

Posted: 7:07 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014

My heart aches for you. I'm so sorry, ((((plainpain))))

My WH (The KISA, NPD) 6 month EA in 2010
2 other EAs in 2012 & 2013
In-House Separation. Yuck.

Posts: 308 | Registered: Nov 2011

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