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User Topic: It's A Boy
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so very sorry. (((hugs)))

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

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Default  Posted: 4:21 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So very sorry....

BW- mid 50's (me)
fWH-late 50's
M 33 T 35
DD-Early 2013 PA 2010
In R but I have PTSD...

Posts: 545 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
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Default  Posted: 6:06 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The one thing that MOW's H ever told me that is soooo true was " don't try to understand why or how they could do this to you, you will go crazy looming for something that doesn't exist"

I didn't get it. I nearly went insane for months. I still dont get it till this day.
But I now understand what he meant. I'm so sorry for for the pain all this is causing you. 😣

Married 24

2Beautiful daughters
DD 6/26/10 (he broke down & confessed)
DD#2 3/14/11 H in OW's car
TT 7/1/11 (NC broken, through emails)

In R

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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


We are pretty much in the same situation right now. My H's potential OC was born on January 2nd. It is a boy, also.

I feel your pain. It hurts worse than anything I have ever experienced. How is your H doing? Mine has emotionally shut down. He tried to pretend like it wasn't real until he got word that the baby was born. I will have to say that he does actually have more remorse now. It is reality and it sucks.

I am so sorry. I wouldn't wish this on anyone, well except for OW.


Me: BS
Him: WH
OW=UW or Ugly Whore- cow of WH
UW claims to be pregnant w/ WH baby and I HATE her for it.
DDay: 4/23/13
Together: 14 years
Married: 10 years
Kids: 3 beautiful boys. Ages: 8, 4, & 19 months
Trying to R-Some days are

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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My heart aches for you. I'm so sorry, ((((plainpain))))

My WH (The KISA, NPD) 6 month EA in 2010
2 other EAs in 2012 & 2013
Filed for D 7/2014

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