We are pretty much in the same situation right now. My H's potential OC was born on January 2nd. It is a boy, also.
I feel your pain. It hurts worse than anything I have ever experienced. How is your H doing? Mine has emotionally shut down. He tried to pretend like it wasn't real until he got word that the baby was born. I will have to say that he does actually have more remorse now. It is reality and it sucks.
I am so sorry. I wouldn't wish this on anyone, well except for OW.LTL
OW=UW or Ugly Whore- cow of WH
UW claims to be pregnant w/ WH baby and I HATE her for it.
Together: 14 years
Married: 10 years
Kids: 3 beautiful boys. Ages: 8, 4, & 19 months
Trying to R-Some days are