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User Topic: new Stretch chapter- dinner?
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 4:15 AM, January 11th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage
Someone's crazy lord, kumbaya!!

Give it a break Stretch, if I spit any more tea on my computer I'm gonna charge YOU to have it fixed.

Or should I ask cg, cuz that's what child support's for

Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...
Posts: 2468 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 7:20 AM, January 11th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage
Uncle Eddie=Great visual!

Npd's thought processes still make me shake my head in disbelief. I think that they try really hard to find a way to be liked/admired. They cannot stand to be the bad guy and have the uncanny ability to convince themselves that what they did was not so bad.
I mean, he invited you to dinner after the divorce! Come on doesn't that show how forgiving he is for the disruption you caused in his life?

After all this time I finally know that none of this was about me or some deficiency I brought to the marriage. He was the one with the problem.
Posts: 1403 | Registered: Mar 2004
cmego
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Default  Posted: 8:32 AM, January 11th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage
I honestly think they compartmentalize so well, it just isn't a big deal to them to "go eat dinner". It literally means nothing to them. A person to chat with while you eat.

Or, he was trying to look good in front of the boys? As look as it looks like he is trying to be nice…then he is the nice guy.

Whatever. Nothing surprises me with the Cousin Eddies of the world.

I can just imagine the look on your face when you heard that little gem!

me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 40, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, separated 3 years, together 17
Alis volat propriis "She flies with her own wings"
separated 1/2011
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